Hi all! I’m a 25 y/o female living in Florida. I love it here - gotta love sunshine, warmth, and the beach! I’ve been happily married for a few years now (yeah, I married young, but we knew what we were getting into and don’t regret it at all). My husband and I are both mid-20s caucasians. We’re pretty active (as in, working out), if that matters. I’m here because… well, let me start at the beginning.
I first heard about pheromones on an old episode of ER. Ha! One of the patients was selling them to the nurses or something. I thought it was an interesting idea, and since I was hardly a guy magnet as a teenager (when that episode aired), I was interested but not enough to bother checkig it out. I thought about pheromones a few times through the years since then, but never really researched them. Then a friend of mine got some lotion with pheromones in it and she loves the smell, but she thinks the pheromones are a scam. I Googled pheromones and came up with Pherlure, and then Googled that and found this site (where everyone was saying don’t bother with Pherlure!). So I’ve been lurking here, reading a lot, for the past day or two, and I am very intrigued.
I am in a happy, committed relationship, obviously, but my sex drive has been adversely affected by the hormonal birth control I take (Ortho Evra). We have sex usually once a week. I would love something that DH could wear to get me more in the mood, or that I could wear to get him totally wanting me (he has a high sex drive, but when he’s like begging me for it it’s SO hot), or something that would work on us both. I’m thinking about trying Turn Up The Heat or Lust After Me. Do you think those are good, or do you have any other recommendations?
I also am by nature pretty confident, but I’m intrigued by the Instant Sexiness (both A & B), Instant Shine and, I think, Instant Rockstar (MX135?) and those sort of confidence-building, occasionally hit-on by strangers things. Instant Openness and Instand Honesty also appeal to me, because sometimes I find it hard to know what to say when I meet new people. I know it won’t put ideas in my head, but it will make me and others more likely to talk.
I know that pheromones don’t cause magic results where strangers start throwing themselves at your feet, but I would definitely enjoy trying them and seeing what happens.
I would love some suggestions what you think I should start with!
TIA!