Greetings AlterBridge,
Welcome to Pherotalk! You’ve certainly come to the right place as there are plenty of knowledgable users here to help you find what your looking for.
Based on your description of your personality, I would say you would probably want to look at Instant Gentleman. This is my personal favorite and would play well with your already existing charm and humor. It will also allow you to give off a masculine, respectable, protector vibe. Many users have stated that it’s great to use when wanting a Long Term Relationship.
Of course there are plenty of great products to use, in conjunction with Instant Gentleman, such as Instant Shine, Instant Openness, and Instant Honesty. A great product that some users have dubbed, “the love pheromone,” is A1. Unfortunately AD no longer sells A1, however with a little digging I’m sure you can find some around here somewhere. Here’s a great thread on A1:
Now on to IS, IO, and IH.
Instant Shine is a great product to pair with just about anything here. It gives off a vibrant, young, feel good atmosphere to all of your interactions.
Instant Openness is the ultimate ice breaker product. Makes people more comfortable around you and allows you to easily start a conversation.
Instant Honesty is for wanting to build a deeper connection with someone. Great for inducing long, deep conversations between people.
Remember, the search function is your best friend here! Good luck with your future experiments!