Hello Miss moose & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk 
Good to have a female member on board
Good that you decided to joined this forum & your keen interest in pheros
For your romance situation there, i would suggest Instant Sexiness A & Instant Honesty (Instant Honesty – Deep Relational Communication Pheromone – You Won’t Believe Your Ears! - Alpha A314). These two is highly recommended by another experienced user here Kitten She know more on the Women pheros like Instant Sexiness A or B You can look for her in her posts here or she might drop by to your intro there. As for your work situation, i could suggest MX134 as i heard it is suitable for work but you should ask the ladies like Kitten about it What i can say about Instant Honesty (Instant Honesty – Deep Relational Communication Pheromone – You Won’t Believe Your Ears! - Alpha A314) is that it is good for intimate relationship & deepen the conservation between the user & the person she talk to.
Here is a link about what pheros can do if you want to know more> What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated & another link about Women Pheros> Womens pheromone guide
I hope i was able to help you there. See ya