Hello to everyone from Minnesota… Im very new to the pheros but I am extremely interested in them.
Im in my mid 30s and have gotten over my approach anxiety.. I can go up to the most beautiful woman and talk with her and not feel scared like I did in my 20s. Maybe Im growing dumber and just havent reminded myself that I shouldnt be going up to someone way out of my league. I dont know what it is but ok now that Im there talking with her, I want something to help close the deal so to speak.
I have ended up in many relationships where the women dont have the lets be friends conversation BUT they act like it… Arghhh I take women out (movies, shows, etc) yet the fun we have never seems to turn into the sexual romps some of my friends have.
Im not an ugly chump..but not great looking either. Not fat and an ok face. One of the guys I know can have any woman he wants and yet he walks around like hes zoned out 24 hours a day and treats women like crap. He is an ok conversationalist which is what I attribute his success to. Im not as good at finding a million topics to talk about. I tend to get talked out after a few minutes which I know is my downfall.
Ok so I was thinking of using maybe a314 or TUTH after reading a bunch of posts on here. I want to turn the friend ladder into a 5 alarm fire sex ladder Will this help my cause?
Any help is appreciated…Also.. Any PUAs or anyone from MN, send me a PM and say hi!
Hey man, that’s awesome that you got over your approach anxiety. This is key for obvious success with women, but also key to success with pheromones.
I suggest skipping the TUTH for now and going for AMMO, IO, and IH (or just CTTM.) Reason why? TUTH is straight up -none mostly, and alone it makes you too sexual and probably not approachable for that same reason. So I suggested IO and IH because these are the best social ice breaking and comforting pheromone products we have here, and they also layer awesomely well with AMMO. As AMMO is an all in one product than just TUTH alone; TUTH is more better used in a situation where you already have the girl comfortable with you. So once you do that then you can add a spray or two to an AMMO, IO, and IH mix.
Hey there pheroz. I’m pretty new to pheromones and this forum too, but I just can’t get enough of all this reading and the sense of community is great, as I’m sure you’ll find out.
I can’t really offer up any personal experience, but I can tell you what my readings have told me. Both of your choices above sound like pretty good choices to me. It sounds like you’re pretty good at what you do, you just can’t get past the “friends” thing. Any of the sexual pheromone sprays sound good for you.
Another product you may want to consider is AMMO. It’s kind of similar to Turn Up The Heat in its -none content (the sexual pheromone) I believe but it’s buffered so you won’t come off as strong. Just something to think about.
I’m not a PUA myself, but I did see a great thread relating to it here. You might also want to check out the Men’s Guide which has a lot of useful information.
Hello! from what i have read, it seems you want to buy some turn up the heat for your first try.
DONT! i made that mistake when i first came here and it was not a good first purchase. its not that its a bad pheromone, its great. but when it comes down to experience, your new and i would Strongly recommend the socials like what mikoto did earlier.
but yeah im a pua(beginner still) even though ive been practicing for over a year. its soo hard to get rid of that AA. lol it sucks but im breakin down barriers every time i go out.
Good Skill!( luck is for people who dont try)
and hope to see some questions soon!
Mikotorocks’ suggestions are just what I would have recommended for you. Ammo for general everyday use, which will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost.
Instant Honesty is also perfect for your situation, because it will add depth and intimacy to your conversations, and people will open up to you more.
Hi there and welcome to the forum. I agree with your initial idea of getting the A314 and TUTH. Personally a confident male with no approach anxiety would be perfect for the mix. I know it’s one of catlord17’s favorite mixes. Kind of like the big burly cop who kicks ass, is how I believe he put it.Where as Ammo would be great if you are looking for something to help pick you up, TUTH is designed to take that to the next level. I think you are falling into comfort and not getting out of it. The TUTH would push that edge a bit and thats why I say go for it.
Also to qualify Tfer15’s statement a little better, you’re in your 30’s, he is 19. There’s a BIG difference in age and for a young man TUTH is not the best choice. I think you’ll do fine.
Will this help my cause?