Hi there! 26yo bartender here. I have taken an interest in pheromones here lately for a couple of reasons. Number one, I want more tips! If I can find something that will help people open their wallets a little more, I will be satisfied. And I also want something that can give me a slight edge with women. I have trouble talking to women. They scare the hell out of me. I know pheromones aren’t magic, and I have been reading up for a couple of weeks, and I think I will start of with a few TO GO sized bottles to test with until I find something that works for me.
I was probably going to order some ammo, instant shine, and instant female magic to start with. I don’t want anything that will make the customers chatty with me. When people try to have conversations with me at the bar, it distracts me from other things that I have to do, such as make drinks for the other customers.
Any suggestions, feedback, so on and so forth would be greatly appreciated.
Cool job you got here. Im not certain about the type of pheromones to try to get more tips, but ishine and a314 will probably help. Since ishine makes people about and a314 make you seem more trustable, customers will probably give you more tips
You dont want any chatting lol, i guess if you talk all the time, you are kind of tired of it, so very understandable. Btw do you want to appear more authoritary or most likeble by others?
Hello Double-O-Seven,
welcome to the forum! Thank you for telling us something about you, what you’d like to take and how you’d like to use it. Here you’ll meet lots of people happy of helping you. For my experience on the Pheros field, I think that you’re on the right way. I cold laso suggest you a couple of more pheros, I mean A314 (for the business thing) and CTTM.
I think that for the women, you’re also on the right way. Using IFM+Instant Shine is very good!!! I had good results with it. I suggest you to take them in TOGO so you can check how they work for you saving some cash.
Hi Double-O-Seven & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk Is that a James Bond code name?
Good that you decide to join this forum & your keen interest in pheros A nice job you got there, you must have make a lot of different drinks like martinis & cocktails, well i’m a clubber
Ok i see you are looking for pheros that can give you tips well i agreed with my buddy Mockingbird that A314 & Instant Shine will probably help as they are suitable for it What he have said about those two pheros is correct And you said you want an edge on Women as you have problem talking to them, here is my recommendation AMMO(Regular Strength will suit you as i noticed your age) + Instant Shine + Instant Openness(Try to get 2X strength if possible) but i leave it to you to decide on my recommendation there.
I think you made some great choices there. IFM will calm and ease the female customers. Ishine is charismatic and would be great for the bar and unceasing tips.
AMMO is sexy attractive and mildly arousing.
You will have increased communication though but they are not as social as something like IO and IH or CTTM .
Being a bartender is just like any other job. It has its ups and downs. The biggest part is dealing with people when you cut them off. NC has some dumb drinking laws, and its frustrates me more than the customers.
Is not that I mind talking to people. Its just that when I get busy, I don’t have the time to play chit chat. When its slow it comes with the job.
Actually phat, you find yourself making the same things over and over. You actually get excited when something different is ordered. The majority of your drinks are what I call fruitinis, white russians, long island ice teas, blue motorcycles, and amaretto sour. And then the people with money go the bond route and order actual martini’s, which in NC you aren’t supposed to make due to our lovely drinking laws.
And yes it is a bond reference. If I could be anyone it would be Bond, or Sinatra.
Actually saying that I am afraid of women isnt actually correct. Is asking for numbers and such. Actually taking that next step. I jus got out of a 4 1/2 year relationship because that sorry you know what cheated on me. It kinda kills your confidence.
Your welcome Double-O-Seven on the feedback, anyway yes you are right about the drinks Well if something different was ordered, i would be excited
Hmm, well some of the drinks that you listed, i have not try yet & i have only tried long island iced teas man that stuff is strong Here is what i have tried beside long island > Malibu pineapple, Blue Lagoon, Blue Hawali, the usual vodka mixed drinks(that you know), Sex On The Beach(they come in shooters) & a couple more that i forgot already Hmm, so i see the drinking laws is strict in NC.
Yes i could have guess that your name is a bond reference Hmm Sinatra, do you mean Frank Sinatra?
Sorry to hear about your previous relationship & i understand how you feel there(It kinda kill your confidence), well time to start afresh & start to get to know some girls with pheros this time I 'm sure you will have success this time with work & social when you use pheros here See you
lol, i guess if you talk all the time, you are kind of tired of it, so very understandable. Btw do you want to appear more authoritary or most likeble by others?
Hmm, so i see the drinking laws is strict in NC.