I joined this group to help my EXTREME lack of sex drive. I seem to be very influenced by scent and after countless visits with a urologist and my OG/GYN, I am seeking help from some of the common folk to clue me in on what I can do to help my issue!
I am NEVER in the “mood”. My husband is WONDERFUL. Seriously, he is what most women want in a man. We had an AWESOME sex life while dating and it seems as the years go on, I am losing my mojo.
I am looking for pheromones that work on ME, not him. He’s all set in that arena.
What can I start with? I’ve looked thru some of the other posts and I am completely clueless on these pheromones you all talk about. I am completely new with all this have never heard of any of these name types or formulas of pheromones.
Thanks in advance. I look forward to learning more about this subject!
Hi there kickinchicken! A welcome to you to the forum!
I’m glad your looking at ways to get you back swinging in the mood. I’ve read on many people who think that mones will do all the work. They are chemical signals that will sometimes affect you but, mostly are for the effects on others. Lets start with what I’ve seen in my LTR…
She reacts well with Instant Shine. She will get in the mood if, and this is a key, if she isn’t tired from a long day at work for example. She’ll be in a good mood when I have it on. So, could this mone help? Possible. I find that my self Effects are a relaxed mood, cool and smiling…
Now, from what I’ve read some female user’s have used IS/b with some TUTH, that is a dab under your nose, to get you in the mood with the IS/b getting a sexy, kittenish, vibe going. Some get self effects from the IS/b and of course, your hubby will likely also get a boost in his sexual interest in you.
Though, TUTH is in the Men’s section of the AD store, you could still use if for yourself in self effects, as I described.
I have the link to the Intro to Mones on my sig below and Tisha has some awesome insight on mones for women on the link below as well. You could look through her sticky posts at the top of the women’s section that will help out tremendously!
You should definitely check out the Women’s section of this forum. They will be able to provide the most help as most people don’t check the Also, there is a search feature in the top right corner of these forums. This is very useful because many users have kept journals of their experiences. I probably use the search function 5 times every time I visit the forum with a question.
For example, I couldn’t remember which pheromone is said to allow females to relax and achieve orgasm easier, so I did a search for orgasm.
This thread showed up:
The molecule is TAC.
I know that you said you want something sexual that will help your own sex drive, but that could honestly be a number of different molecules as Alpha has already indicated. You will have to experiment and find out what works for YOU. Some women like the smell of TUTH dabbed under their noses, some don’t. You might even not like it under your nose, but on your husband’s clothing.
While we are discussing pheromones that contain none (what TUTH has in it), I feel compelled to mention Instant Jerk. It isn’t the first thing that I would try for this situation, but I would keep it in the back of my mind.
Also, these products were designed so that they can be worn in combination with each other. It is called “layering” and it is important if you want the effects of different products at the same time.
By all means, please head over to the women’s section. I feel like they can answer this type of question better than I can. There are women of all ages and types there and I’m guessing that one or more of them have had similar life experiences and can probably help you with both pheromones and in other ways as well!