Hello!
You should definitely check out the Women’s section of this forum. They will be able to provide the most help as most people don’t check the Also, there is a search feature in the top right corner of these forums. This is very useful because many users have kept journals of their experiences. I probably use the search function 5 times every time I visit the forum with a question.
For example, I couldn’t remember which pheromone is said to allow females to relax and achieve orgasm easier, so I did a search for orgasm.
This thread showed up:
The molecule is TAC.
I know that you said you want something sexual that will help your own sex drive, but that could honestly be a number of different molecules as Alpha has already indicated. You will have to experiment and find out what works for YOU. Some women like the smell of TUTH dabbed under their noses, some don’t. You might even not like it under your nose, but on your husband’s clothing.
While we are discussing pheromones that contain none (what TUTH has in it), I feel compelled to mention Instant Jerk. It isn’t the first thing that I would try for this situation, but I would keep it in the back of my mind.
Also, these products were designed so that they can be worn in combination with each other. It is called “layering” and it is important if you want the effects of different products at the same time.
By all means, please head over to the women’s section. I feel like they can answer this type of question better than I can. There are women of all ages and types there and I’m guessing that one or more of them have had similar life experiences and can probably help you with both pheromones and in other ways as well!