Hello there. I am 28 and I live in northern california. I work part time and I attend classes at a local college. I would like to be a teacher or professor. For now I like meeting new people. I am kind of shy at first, but once I get to know somebody, I am a very good listener and a fun, happy person. I love to make people smile. If anyone has any good advice for me on how to make the most out of this forum, it would be appreciated. Thanks for taking the time to read my post. Have a great day/ nite.
Hi there,
how to make the most out of the forum? You might want to look up this thread:
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/read-me-first-helpful-topics-on-how-to-get-around/3106
Also, check this one out:
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
to find out what to tell us about yourself, and how to do it so we know how to make good recommendations tailored for you. Then, you can make an informed decision what to use your Gift Certificate for. We need to know some more about your personality, goals, difficulties in social interactions maybe? How did you get interested in pheromones, how did you find this forum? What do you expect them to do?
Oh, and be sure to make an appearance here:
WOMEN’s Pheromone Advice, Tips and Tricks at PheromoneTalk.com
our girls are always hungry for new female members, and make every one of them feel special. Especially some of them always impress me with their full, thoughtful, wise answers to any question that can be asked here.
Welcome to Pheromone Talk 
Hi Ivoryrose, always good to see another fem on the forum. Have a look at the link Marihino gave you - the stickies at the top of every forum “page” are full of the topics that you will find of interest.
Also try this: How do I qualify for a $25 gift certificate?
What is it that you’d like to accomplish with mones?
Awe, thanks for the good advice! 
I stumbled upon that first really informative link right after I posted. I’ll check out all the other links now too.
Thankx for the good advice! I’ll look for the “stickies” as soon as I get used to navigating the pages. I’m just interested in learning more about all this. It’s all so new, and fun to read about everyone’s experiences.
I just found the “stickies”!!! Yay!!! This is gonna be good!
Yes, it is much fun and laughter to be had on these pages.
Thanks for pointing me in the right direction. I read about pheromones in an ad in an old magazine. There is way more info on here though. I just don’t get how to… i don’t figure out how to find these things on the other site. Where do I go to look for the products? Thanks again for all the help so far, and thanks for reading my post. Have a great day
if you scroll up to the top of the page you will see 2 links one in the middle that says Get Real Pheromones directly from Androtics Pheromone Research at the SmartMones Pheromone Store or another blue link where you see new unanswered your space etc.. you should see smartmones that is also a store link now as for other stores out there i have no idea since this is my first area i found out about
Thanks, Roughneck20! I’ll give that a try
no problem
I checked out the stickies at the womens forum, and it seems like some of the really informative stuff is from a while ago and does not apply to the products available for women. As for what I’m looking to accomplish, I was just curious to see what any of this stuff does. One of the stickies was really helpful inexplaining stuff. What product would anybody recomend for a ‘newb’ who is just curious to see how this stuff works? Thanks again for your help. You rock
As just a ‘one off’ purchase to see if they work? Try Instant Shine. It will show you some things you wouldn’t have thought . . .
Thanks for taking the guess work out of all this! my head is spinning with all the reading. You rock
Hi Ivoryrose,
Given your personality and the things you’d like to accomplish, I do have a few suggestions for you to start with.
To help with that initial shyness, definitely get some Instant Openness. People will be more relaxed and friendly around you, conversation will flow more easily.
Instant Shine is another one you’ll enjoy. It will give you a happy youthful glow that others will be infected by and will want to be around. Even though the listing in the store says “for men”, it is a unisex product.
In fact, all the social products - Instant Openness, Instant Honesty and Instant Shine are unisex. Ammo, Instant Gentleman, Turn Up The Heat, Instant Jerk and A314 are for men. Although women can use A314 as long as it’s buffered or softened with a social or other product.
The only commercial product currently available “for women only” in Instant Sexiness/B, which will enhance your femininity in a soft, sexy way. There are also a couple of experimental test mixes for women, but you may want to wait until you “get the hang” of phero products and how they work before you try them.
I hope this helps, and please do come and join us in the womens section, feel free to ask any questions you may have, you can even start your own journal in the womens journal section if you wish.
Thanks, Sillykitty For now I’m thinking of trying out the instant shine, but instant openess sounds like something worth looking into for sure. I’ve been reading about ‘self-effects’ here on the forum, and it might help me become more relaxed and friendly as well as the other people you meantioned. Is this the sort of thing (instant openess) that you were refering to as a ‘social product’?
Yes, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty and Instant Shine are social products. Ammo, Instant Jerk and TUTH (all for men) are sexual/attraction products. A314 and Instant Gentleman are status/respect products. Instant Sexiness/B for women is an attraction product.
Ok, neat that really explains a lot. You are so savy. If you don’t mind, might i ask what is your favorite? when every I’m at a new resturant or bar I always ask the server their favoirte, because then I am sure to get something really good. This is a whole new venue to me
Out of the socials, I think I like Instant Openness best, though they are all awesome and I wouldn’t be without any of them, because they all have different purposes, depending on the situation and what you want to happen.
For example, in a crowded social situation where I hardly know anyone, if I had to pick just one, it would be Instant Openness. If I was meeting up with a female friend I hadn’t seen for awhile, I might choose Instant Honesty for its bonding effects. Feeling a little down? Instant Shine to the rescue!
My other favorite is A314, just a dab by my collarbone area/wrists, with a social product to buffer/soften it, because for a woman, A314 can be a bit harsh and she might come off seeming like a bitch. So just a teeny bit (always buffered of course, never worn alone) adds a nice little vibe of confidence/respect. A314 is really intended as a mens confidence/status/trust/respect product for in the workplace, but I’ve found many other uses for it, with the right alterations. I’ve reported many of my results here if you’re interested A314 on a woman? .
Nice! Thanks for taking the time to break it down so perfectly for me. The social stuff you meantioned really clarified stuff I have been reading on here. And I had no idea about A314. I’m totally going to check out your post before I call it a nite. Thank you again and again for taking your time to help me. You are so helpful!