Hi Lucy,
for start, I will recommend you some reading:
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/read-me-first-helpful-topics-on-how-to-get-around/3106
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
check these threads out, as well as any sticky thread you can find - all questions you can possibly have now at the beginning will be answered this way. You will also learn how to write an introduction that qualifies for the Gift Certificate. It would mean giving us some more info on your personality, social background, hopes, goals etc - so we can provide you with more informed advice, tailored specifically for you.
Pheromones can certainly help with what you are trying to achieve, but there is some skill to it.
Welcome to the Pheromone Talk, have a lot of fun 