Hello riank & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk 
Good that you join this forum & your keen interest on phero here
Ok for your situation there, for work i would suggest A314 + Instant Openness & for your love life Turn Up The Heat & Instant Honesty as these two works best for intimate relationships. Instant Openness is also recommended for your spouse as this will make her want to communicate with you more. Here is a link about A314,Turn Up The Heat, Instant Honesty, Instant Openness & the other pheros here> mens pheromone guide
I hope i managed to help you there. See you