I’m 21 years old, male, and I currently resides in san diego, california.
I started searching for pheromones after browsing on amazon for hair products and accidentally stumbled upon some pheromone product, of course I don’t really trust commercialized websites and I want to know more extensively about pheromones from real people with real experiences. That’s when I found this site. I read a lot of threads and some of the stories seems too good to be true, but the sheer amount of posts on this forum lead me to believe that everything posted here is genuine trustworthy.
So here goes nothing…the main goal I have in mind is social status. I know about the alpha and beta male stuff, and I don’t see too much physical alpha male traits on me. I’m not very tall or big, 5’7’’ and about 145 pounds. My voice isn’t very deep or commanding. My face is boyish looking and I look 3 or 4 years younger than I actually am. As a result, I feel like I tend to be ignored or not taken as seriously in social situations. Especially at big parties where no one really know each other and everyone is judged superficially. I definitely get less attention from the girls than those big tall sporty, frat guy types, if I’m in a circle of talking people, what I say is sometimes ignored, what’s worse, I may be the target of ridicule by other males seeking to prove they are alpha by tormenting someone who looks weak or wimpy and less likely to challenge back, a.k.a me.
I wonder if pheromones can help someone in my situation appear more alpha, I been reading around and it seems A314 is most suited for this goal, but I wonder if A314 would work on someone who doesn’t LOOK alpha? Would I be challenged constantly? Because I really don’t know how to act in those situations without coming off as insecure, or worse, instill hostility, I’m not very likely to come out victorious from a fight with some 6 feet 4 beast of a dude.
You´re absolutely right .. … the sheer amount of posts speaks for itself !
Don´t worry about your current status or beeing an alpha issues .. you can work on them .. and time helps you as well !
let me tell you one thing about me .. when i was 18 my weight was 55kg and i´m 1,77m
sports was what others did ..but you need to know that i had an car accident
I was somewhat shy and lacked a lot of self convidence … i even never thought about what this could be !
I always had to show my Personality Card when i was out and .. believe it or not i´d get some good looking girls .. and i was looking like 14 when i was 18 !
Then i had a girlfriend which was interested into psychology and i bought my first books on facereading and body language ..
And i became better and better …
I still had to learn a lot and i found some ways mask my deficits… i became a really good dancer !
I started with Material Arts and a lot of things changed ..
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Good news..
Pheromones can help you !
A314 is like you suggested most likely the best choice for you along with some Instant Shine …
A314 works even on people who are not Alpha .. i´ve seen it with my own eyes letting some guys from our seduction lair putting on some drops ..
The self effects of A314 will make you more confident ..
This Products will help you … how about your conversational skills .. can you easy open up people ?
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I suggest for you to start with some sports …
get some books about body language and read up on PU-stuff ( give Steve a call ..he´s going to tell you more )
As well make sure to read the stickies in the men´s section and the ones above here in the introductory forum
Mickaelia will surely pass you over a 25$ GC once we know a bit more about you ..
“I want to know more extensively about pheromones from real people with real experiences.” You’re at the right place- I think you will really like the journal section.
“The main goal I have in mind is social status” A314. It gives an alpha/status/leadership vibe that is also attractive to the ladies.
Its 90% you and 10% mones, but I do think that it will work for you if you act congruently. (Congruence means acting in accordance with the vibe you are putting out. So If You are wearing A314 but you are acting beta it probably wouldn’t work – but if you acting alpha and playing the part it will.)
I don’t really understand what you mean by if I can “easy open up people.” I’m not shy or anything, but with girls its hard for me to steer the conversation away from small talk into where I want it to go ;p.
I so I been trying to read up about the sciences behind this too, and Pago you mentioned something about self effects of A314. From your experience, does this self effect occur every time you use it or do you get used to it after a certain time period and you aren’t affected by it anymore?
I just wanted to know if you can start conversations … you know approach aniexety !
The self effects of mones do somewhat diminish if you use them every day but they are back once you go a few days phero - free … what´s recommended anyway ..
you will get used to the self effects … but they are still there .. you´re only not anymore consciously aware of them ..
Pagodeiro has already given you some great advice, as he tends to do. I´ve used A314 alcohol version, ad it has worked very good for me. I bought “Alpha A314 Spray (1.23A)” Trust & Respect Pheromone for Men :: Pheromones To Go™ (Portable / Travel Size) :: Androtics Direct (https://a314.com/), which is told to be a little bit stronger than a single drop of the regular oil version. whenever i use it, i spray it the neck/behind the ear area, and it diffuses great.
You should give it a try. I guess you will like it. The very first time i used it, i could not really say what was going on. I sprayed it a couple of times, put on a nice blazer and went to the mall to see what happened. I went back home a little bit disappointed. Anyway, after using less than one full to go spray, i knew i was ordering the oil version. It works as good as everybody says.
I also happen to like IG a lot. I guess I´m an adrosterone guy!
IG is similar to A314, but it´s more relaxed and sexy. I usually ad some IS to it.
Right now IG is out of stock, but John Sebastian srecently posted that it will be restocked soon, so i guess it will be!
Anyway, both A314 and Ig are great products that you will enjoy using for sure.
The whole “Alphaness” thing is matter of inner thoughts which reflects on your view of yourself..
Being tall,short,obese, mascular has nothing to do with it..
A314 will help you IF you were congruent or better word “aligned” with it..
Good luck in your inner game
Wow thanks for all the advices.
Anyways, I got A314, Ammo, and I also got a free sample of IS.
I tried these today and I think I see some pretty cool things.
2 drop of A314 oil, one behind each ear.
2 sprays of Ammo, to the front of the chest and back of the neck.
1 spray of IS, covering the ammo in the front.
Nothing much different from my Boss, seems he isn’t really affected by it.
This girl I’m working with though, I noticed her playing with her hair while I’m talking to her.
After work I asked her to take a walk with me so I can show her the beach (she is new to the country and SD)
So we walked and talked for about an hour, but I think by that time whatever I had on me that morning probably already came off (It was 3pm, I put everything on 9am).
