Hello from Seattle

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Hi everyone.

I’m Serena, from Seattle. I’m 25 and an immigrant to this country from West Africa. I’ve lived in the US for most of my life, however, so I’m technically an American, I guess? Hard to describe oneself without sounding incredibly arrogrant, BUT, I am thin, and quite pretty-- around 5’8". I’ve never had any trouble attracting attention. I used to model, but that life was not for me because I tend to be quiet and introverted. I think shy and quiet are different, so I wouldn’t classify myself as the former. It takes at least one drink to get me to open up and be more of an extrovert. I have plenty of good friends and they would classify me as silly, sarcastic and a bit of a nerd/geek… whereas people I don’t see in my most comfortable state (ie: coworkers), would probably describe me as a bit aloof or cold (I just just got my mid-year review :smiley: Must be my face).

So, I recognise that I have some issues with social interactions, especially in the romantic and mingling atmospheres. I have great self-confidence, but very poor confidence when it comes to talking to men and getting to know other people. I don’t know why. Often, a guy will stop me in the street and flirt with me and my usual reaction is to wonder why this person is talking to me. Or if I do realise at the time that he’s trying to flirt, I feel really awkward about it and end the conversation quickly.

I guess what I’m looking for is for pheromones to aid me in that extra boost of confidence to talk and flirt with other people and to help me feel more sexy and outgoing, and for others to sense that also? I’ve also been told that I come off as intimidating, so I’d love something that maybe could inspire people to feel more comfortable around me.

I love to go clubbing, but not sure about picking up guys from there. It could be a fun experiment, so I’m open… Halloween is coming up soon and I’ll be doing a lot of partying more or less within my known circle… I’d love for people to gravitate toward me. :slight_smile: I’m dating a lot right now, thanks to my friends, so something to help me on all of these first and second dates I’m going on would help too! I’m looking for less of a ‘right here right now’ type of sexy and more of a ‘let’s get to know one another’ type of sexy. Maybe a mix between the two?

Also, I’m fortunate to work in a very relaxed work environment. Something that would help me loosen up, feel fun and silly around my coworkers on our company outings (bowling, arcade gaming, etc.) would be tremendous.

Lastly, I’ve been browsing and I’m not sure if it helps, but I wear mainly floral (jasmine, lavender, gardenia), wood/water (balsam) and spice (anise, vanilla) fragrances. I practise a mostly natural lifestyle so I don’t wear commercial products with chemicals.

Thanks, everyone, in advance!

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Hey Serena. Welcome to the forum.

I would recommend Instant Sexiness B, Instant Shine, and Instant Honesty. Instant Sexiness does much what the name describes…makes the user appear more sexy and attractive. IS/b is for a more quite, submissive female vibe which I think would fit you better than IS/a which is for a more alpha, dominant female vibe but there are many women here who benefit from both. Instant Shine will put people in a better mood around you and can make you appear more vibrant/attractive. It’s a great addition to any mix and can also have self-effects of putting you in a better mood and making you feel more confident. Instant Honesty with make people feel more comfortable and trusting towards you…that could definitely help people feel less intimidate in their interactions with you and also help with that ‘let’s get to know each other’ vibe you mentioned. It can definitely help build intimacy between two people.

Good luck and most importantly, have fun!

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Welcome to the forum Serena.

IH and IO are both good for getting communications going and establishing rapport. You should put them on your list of things to try.

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Hello Serena and welcome to the forum.

You sound like a very interesting person. And if you are looking for something that could help ramp up your social interactions, then this is a great place to be.

The products here can help in a wide variety of situations - you are often limited only by your imagination.

IS/b is a great sexual attraction product. It sounds like it will work well with your personality.

IO is great at helping generate general chatty types of conversations. Sometimes a little too chatty for me but if you want something to help with those intial conversations while keeping it fun and light - then this is a great product.

IH on the other hand is great for really getting to know someone. They can really open to you and end up telling you things you might be surprised to hear.

The key as always to these products is to remember that you cannot just sit there and expect things to happen around you. Body language and percieved attitude will trump everything else. But if you are friendly and engage people socially, then these products will really grease the skids for you and possibly open new doors you might not have expected.

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Welcome to Pherotalk Frivellity!

You know the sign you got your near your name is very confusing. It is blue for man , your name is Serena and the men recommended female sexual pheromones for you and I was literally starring at the screen wondering what is going on.

Of course, I read your intro fully and understood perfectly well. In addition to the sexual pheromones recommended you really want to try Instant shine to take off the harsh appeal you might be giving and this will also draw others to you.

Have a great weekend.

Your gc was issued. :smiley:

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Hi everyone! Thanks for the suggestions… I will definitely try out IO and IS/a… I’m pretty apprehensive about people sharing their secrets with me, so I’ll start with light chattiness first. :slight_smile:

@Michaelia, haha sorry about that! I’m pretty sure my account was set up by a man, so I’m a male on these boards.