Taking a moment to say hello and collect my $25 credit! More later.
Bookem Danno
Hello “Steve” and welcome to the forum.
Sorry - gotta do more than just say hello - lol.
Read the thread in my signature block that talks about earning a GC - we need to know a little about your personality and how you relate to people as well as what you want to do with them to get the GC.
Plus it will also let us know what kind of products to recommend based on what you are trying to do.
Looking forward to your response.
Welcome Steve.
If you let us know about your personality and your goals, we may be able to make some suggestions of interest.
Hi Steve,
Are you shy or outgoing? Are you looking for pheros for work, social, or sexual situations? Do you have a specific target or situation in mind, or are you just looking to improve where you can?
Let us know, and we can make suggestions!
Let me tell you a little about me. I am a young age 55 and I am going through a divorce. My wife left me for a man 21 years younger then herself. She is age 55.(could she be a cougar?) I haven’t even dated for 37 years, since I was very faithful to my spouse. Now I’m faced with taking baby steps to get back out and meet new people.
To tell you the truth, I’m very interested in my co-worker who is age 35 and is married, but her husband and her are going through horrible problems because he has been doing drugs. I don’t know if they can last much longer. She has had enough of the situation. I have been an excellent listener.
We get along very well (we work alone) and I certainly don’t know if a relationship is even possible, but I thought in a very selfish way that maybe pheromones might be helpful to establish a connection. Maybe I’m just crazy. I certainly would never try and take advantage of her at work, and I have no intent to do any thing to make her uncomfortable. Maybe, just use pheromones to explore some future possibilities.
I may be out of my mind. You can tell me.
But all of your thoughts on the possibility of using pheromones and the kinds to use are appreciated?
I’m not shy at all but quiet. I am going through a divorce and am now starting to think about the possibility of meeting another person. I am very attracted to my co-worker who is going through very bad martial problems herself. I don’t think she knows I am attracted to her, and she’s much younger with kids, so I don’t even think it could work out, but I thought maybe (we get along great) pheromones might have some role to play,if I knew ones to use. I may be just out of my mind, because I’m lonely, I don’t know, but she sure is the type of women my wife never was. She’s 35 and I’m 55.
So looking for pheros for work right now.
I suggest considering starting with these.
ig - Rone based - gives a comfortable, masculine provider vibe. Good for establishing ltr.
a314 - also rone based, conveys a bit higher status than ig, and so can be more distancing, especially with low status individuals.
tuth - anone - conveys sexual power. Not good for young guys to wear alone but at your age you can. Just remain polite and you can pull it off.
ammo - buffered anone.
IH - helps get people talking and to establish rapport. Not sexual by itself but builds relationships.
You can get all but the a314 in small to-go sizes to see if they work for you.
GWTW gave you some good advice on pheros.
Sorry to hear about the divorce. I am amrried 20+ years and would not be sure how to get back into the dating scene myself. As far as the siutation at work - I would continue to be a good friend (Instant Gentleman, IH and IShine) and if the husband wants to kill his marriage - well he is obviously the idiot from the sounds of things. and then there is going to be quite a bit of emotional and psychological healing for both of you.
There are a couple threads in my signature block that you might be interested in. Even though you are not looking to improve things at home, the thread that deals with that certainly gives ideas about how to use pheros that could be put to work anywhere.
The threads dealing with Ammo, A314 and IG have a lot of helpful information also about different combos and how ccertain products differ from others.
And as a last note my favorite combo this past summer was the IG, IH and IShine combo I mentioned above. Another nice thing about IG is that it often helps older guys seem younger. IShine helps make the people around you happy and happy to be near you. That could certainly be a help at work.
Let us know what you decide to do.
Welcome to Pherotalk McGarrett!
You got some great advice from Bosshank and being married himself he has loads of experience you can draw from.
I read your introduction and believe that this situation is a bit complicated and if you are not careful it may get even more so. You wouldn’t want to do what someone else has done to you and stare her away from her husband. Just continue to care and be a listening ear and if it they get divorced you can take it from there.
The products that were suggested will not only assist in getting you back into dating but assist with seeing how she reacts to you so you know how she feels.
The men’s forum is a great place to learn how to get some useful tips when it comes to dating.
Remember you are still alive and if you dare to reach for them great things are ahead.
Your GC will be issued soon!