Hello Mr Wise & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk 
First of all glad that you join this forum & your keen interest on pheros Ok i see you have a problem with your approach with girls well i got my recommendation to you> AMMO(Regular strength will do for you as i noticed your age) + Instant Openness(This is a must) + Instant Shine(If possible get 2X Strength for the Instants) but i leave it to you to decide there.
Here is a link about AMMO & the instants> mens pheromone guide (Have a look at it)
I hope i was able to help you there. See you