Well my name is SteveO (I’m not always a Jackass though) and I live in TN, but I have lived all over the world. I grew up in New Jersey and got the travel bug. I most recently lived in the Caribbean before moving to TN. Currently I am attending school to become a .NET developer. I figured after years of teching myself computer “stuff” I needed a formal education to better my life.
So about me personally. I was pretty much overweight all my adult life. I’m not sure what happened but after being discharged from the army (spent four very fit years) I gained massive weight. That does a lot to disrupt self confidence and I always thought if I had some magic potient I could atract tons of girls even though I did nothing to atract them through my looks. So then I heard of Pheromones and tried many of them, all without any luck. I pretty much swore them off as useless. I have a great personality and that is always a plus, but fella’s do yourself a favor, lose the weight, read Mystery’s method, David DeAngelo, anything you can on dating and attraction. I must re-emphasize the point though that you need to get yourself in shape. Nobody who spends half their lives in a gym want to spend time under the sheets with someone who spends half their lives eating junk food. EH-eh don’t work that way.
Anyway I did what I needed to and lost the weight and got in shape and here I am willing to try pheromones from a different perspective. I have a new lease on life and was hoping someone could guide me on where to start. I am a 39 year old male in pretty good shape. I want to use this stuff to attract hot women and experience all those intimate moments I missed as a fat slob.
OK so I forgot to mention my last experience with a pheromone was pretty cool. One night in a drunken stuper I ordered some pheromones on eBay and I was suprised by the results. Although not great, I did notice more conversation with more people, but nothing that I could pinpoint down to the actual product. For all I know it could have just givin me more confidence, or a placebo effect. I thought the price was to cheap to really be of good quality product. I operate several web forums and decided that as with everything else on the web the best answers usually come from other users. I searched Google and found several sites but this one seemed most sincere. So that’s why I am here.
So again I am 39 years old and want to satisfy my wild side. I go to college (again) but work out of my house. I do go out places but not so much as bars and clubs. Usually I end up at coffee houses, bookstores, and other super geeky things.
I want women young and old to notice me and I want to be MAD SEXXXY to them.
I guess nobody has been on to say hello! It’s OK, but I really want to get the order in so I did some research by reading everything I could on the forum. I was thinking Instant Shine with Alpha A134 and TUTH to start. Can anyone tell me if that’s a good combo. I’m not sure about the A134 because it seems like it would be more for work, but if I offset it with the Instant Shine maybe it will work.
Then I thought maybe the Instant Shine and TUTH first togethor. I don’t know, that’s why I’m here.
Welcome, Steveo! I’m impressed with your self-makeover with weight loss, getting fit and studying attraction. Pheromones should be a nice adjunct to all the good stuff you’ve got going on.
I was waiting for one of the guys to stop by with some advice because I think they could do a better job of making some recs for you, but I’ll give it a shot.
Since you’re not much into bars and clubs, I think you’re on the right track with A314 and Instant Shine; that’s a popular combination. Another one you might consider is Instant Female Magic; it really does make women feel good around you. Something with lots of androstenol like Instant Openness, Instant Honesty, Spaceland is good for enhancing communication, a kind of social lube.
Lots of the guys here seem to either feel -none (the primary ingredient in Turn Up The Heat) is overrated, or they use it in a carefully modulated mix so that it’s balanced by other more stable or social pheromones. I think it takes some study and practice to use it well. Check out posts on Turn Up The Heat and androstenone by some of the more experienced members like catlord17, Sigma, nbully79, pheroquirk and MHarris to start with.
Certain things can give you a clue as to whether -none might help you - for example, if a man is under 25, very athletic, a big guy, somewhat intimidating to others, type O blood type, African American, Latino or Causasian, you may not want (much) additional -none. Someone who is older than 30 or 35, smaller physically, sedentary, not in good shape, kind of shy or not very assertive/aggressive personality, East Asian, blood types other than O … might find it really useful, assuming their targets are receptive to -none; i.e., East Asians and younger women who are not currently ovulating are often not as receptive.
I guess the A314 will most likelly work for me. After all your description of who it will work for pretty much fits me. I still need to loose more weight, but I am def on the right path. Maybe some of you guys can chip in your advice too.
A314 is great; I think its vibe is very appealing. Based around androsteRone but contains some androsteNone as well as many other pheromones (16 total 'mones in the current version, Jasmin just said). There are 3 threads about A314 topping the list in the men’s forum right this minute!
I think one problem is, is this forum is starting to become pretty popular. I can’t keep current with postings anymore (were over 100 when I signed on today! Oy. I’m that far behind.) Plus it’s been a very busy month for me.
I too am in that “reboot” stage after my own medial/overweight problems (I still have a few pounds to go, and need to figure out what to do with my new “turkey neck” and tummy flap, as well as buying a whole new wardrobe, again…).
I’m finding I’m leaning toward the “social” products like Instant Openness (which does seem to work in sparking/fostering conversation), and hoping for the best in terms of an all in one like Ammo. Jury still out.
I’ve found a314 may create a “leadership” vibe, but can’t be sure. I have found myself being trailed by my companions when I’m wearing a314 and out shopping, but I’ve also realized that for a long time, even before a314, I’d often be mistaken for someone “in power” at stores I’d shop at (for some reason other customers would think I was a manager or something and ask me questions. A “natural” already-present trait/attribute?).
I’m going to be re-evaluatiing and rethinking about a lot of this this coming year…
Hi SteveO, i have happened to read your intro for a while & just feel that i must say thanks for improving this wonderful forum to the standards today I can see how was it in that time that it take so long for someone to respond to your intro & see how much the difference now Anyway is fishing your hobby?
