Well, not entirely the middle of no where, I currently am living in Burlington, VT. Originally from Mass. 21 year old Asian male and about to become a senior at some university (it’s pretty well known and if you know about where I’m from you can guess easily!)
I’ve heard of pheromones from a friend of mine who gets hit on by a particular guy all the time. She found out this guy uses pheromones and whenever he sprays it on (apparently not too often) it makes her “want” him but of course she refuses (will-power)! She says he smells like old spice when he uses it. After that, I just did a quick google search for a pheromone forum and this was the first.
I’d like to say I’m a little bit shy, but I might be a lot worse than a little bit. I’m not really sure how to subject this but either way, in unfamiliar situations, I’m not uncomfortable, just quiet and reserved. It’s my last year in college, and I want to see what and how pheromones will help in my social life.
I usually become the “i don’t know you so we won’t talk” awkward silence type of person when around new people. Very rarely do I ever click with anyone. I’m hoping pheromones will help me meet new (and more) people. I have some problems with the opposite sex as well. I’m not sure what my problem is, but lets just start with I have no idea how to flirt or attract the opposite sex.
I’m curious how pheromones will affect the people that already in my life, as these people I see fairly often (more often than most other people). What will pheromones do to the people that see me often? How will it affect their views of me once I run out or stop wearing it? And how about the people I’ve met while using pheromones; what will happen when I meet them while not wearing it?
TL;DR version
21 year old Asian male from Burlington, VT. A primarily caucasian state (second in US, behind Maine). Any pheromone product you guys recommend I should get? I did a little research, and was ready to post a few days ago but I had some registration issues. I thought that the A314 seemed like a universal kind of thing that may be good. Thoughts?
Hm you never know what it could be, but if it works it could be Androtics. If it was a muskier smell it’s probably Akuto, if its more floral/citrus either FF21/FF22 (AMMO) or Neroli (Majority of Instant Line).
AMMO is a great place to start when you’re shy, it gives you enough confidence from the Androsterone, Openness with conversation on the Alpha Androstenol, and the kick with Androstenone. Overall its a great product to try out. However to help move things in the right direction I would also look at Instant Openness, that helps you open up to people and have them open up to you as well. Plenty of users here will also tell you about CTTM and they will probably chime in after me to give you their recommendations.
Creating attraction and flirting is a learned skill. I’ve read books by David DeAngelo and Vin DeCarlo along with books by Tony Robbins and Stephen Covey. Not all are related to pickup but it helps give you tools to help you with your internal confidence, which would eventually show as well. I’m a big fan of “Inner Game” but you also need some pointers on striking conversation and keeping attraction, from what I’ve read here, Mystery Method might work well for you in that department. I’m speaking from experience when I say A314 helped me the most with that but I was already on my way to conversing and building rapport and confidence. The combination of Instant Gentleman and Instant Shine might work better for you for now, and heck even throughout your pheromone usage, but keep A314 in the back of your mind later on.
My observations are that people I know and know me exhibit less of a change of reaction initially when I first started using pheromones. However as time progressed, as my body language and actions became more congruent with my signature, I saw more changes with them. I believe it helps chanmge and influence their perception of you, but it takes longer than someone you just met. For quick “hits” and the most blatant ones, you will probably see it more evident with people you never met.
Once again P51 hits the proverbial nail on the head. I couldn’t agree more with everything he’s said. I mean if I was to write something out it be exactly the same. This is amazing since it goes to show you just how awesome of a community we really have. The members here participate and make just as good of recommendations as I could ever hope to.
With that in mind there’s really nothing left for me to do but welcome you to the discovery of mones in your life. I think you’re going to just love, love, love it here. You probably already noticed, but I issued your email GC just a short while ago, Should be in your inbox just waiting to start off the journey just right.
Only thing I’m going to recommend to you is please select P51’s answer as the most valuable so he gets credit for such a great think piece. Welcome to the forum and please ask as many questions as you have.
Welcome to the forum, I am sure you will be an active ‘resident’ of this forum.
P51 has given all the answers, so I am just going to welcome you.
Pheromone products will make you have a fun time with people, break barriers quite easily. People around you will also respond positively. For this, you can try the INSTANT series of products, namely Instant Openness , Instant Honesty , etc.
Many have tried and have also shared their experiences, which I guess will be a starter for you.
Alright, i’m forgetting the A314 for now (it is pricey). Another question, I were to buy two, would you recommend AMMO and Instant Openness? I was also looking at the ammo/instant shine combo, but you are all more experienced in this kind of thing than I am and would like to know what your thoughts are.
I would go with Instant Shine vs Instant Openness when you’re going to purchase only two. Based on what you told me and your age, and after you finding out your sweet spot, there should be enough Alpha Androstenol in your mixes and adding Instant Shine would definitely help being that over the top. I love the way that it just makes things better and people in more of an upbeat mood, couple that with some AMMO and you’re set to go.
Of course you’re free to always choose what you want.
I just want to make clear that I recommended Instant Shine instead of Instant Openness. Regardless it’ll be what’s good for you they’re both great but having clearity helps.