Hello from the UK! Where to begin...?

Hello all,

Firstly, it’s great that this forum exists. I was quite sceptical about the effects of pheromones, but this forum goes a long way to making me open minded.

I am a 22yo male, outgoing generally, but suffer a little bit from ‘fox-in-the-headlights’ when it comes to talking to women I’m attracted to. I’m fortunate enough to have a good mix of friends, and primarily I want to try and be more attractive to the people I already know.

I also think I’m in an interesting situation. I was having a drink with a couple of my laddish-alpha-male type mates when we spotted a mutual female friend of ours who came and joined us. After a while, and out of nowhere, she pipes up (drunk) and says to me: ‘you don’t strike me as an alpha male.’ (finding it surprising that I was socialising with these guys). One of them, overhearing, turns round to the girl and says directly: ‘well, you’re talking out of your arse.’

Quite amusing really, thinking back.!

I think, at times, I come across as a man’s man, with girls i’m not attracted to I come across well, but those I AM attracted to probably a bit of a ‘nice guy,’ seeking social approval, displaying unattractive qualities etc.

SO…

  1. I primarily want to increase my attraction to women whom I already know, as well as…

  2. maintain (or, indeed, increase) my status among my mates.

  3. I’m also going to be entering the testosterone-fuelled environment of the Royal Navy Commissioning College next year, and I want to look at ways in which I can come across as authoritative, a man deserving of respect.

I have looked on the forum and A314, I believe, is discouraged for younger guys. It does look like a particularly powerful product though…can anyone give me some suggestions about a good combination for my situation?

It’s great to be on this site, hopefully I can soon start to benefit from the products.

Cheers.

Hello wjh1! Welcome to the forum sweetie! Great intro by the way!

Glad you like the forum, there are lots of great people here, and the guys will drop in soon to help you out, so until then I’ll try to help out :slight_smile:

Excuse her, she was drunk…and what a weird thing to say to a guy…gee…lol

I find that some women misunderstand what alpha male is. I certainly did, until I read this thread Why Men Love Prostitutes (just go 7 pages before the last page) I learned so much more about alpha men. It’s an interesting read. Anyhoo

For pheros, do get yourself some ammo since you’re young a little probably goes a long way. This product gives off a sexy and cool vibe, it’s great for dating.

You probably can use A314 too, if you want that alpha vibe, but like I said you probably only need a tad of it.

Don’t forget your socials though!! It’s a must!

Instant shine - instant mood uplifter. Makes people around you more happy, people start joking around, it’s a fun product. Great for everyday use.

Instant openness - to make people more chatty. You’ll feel comfortable talking for a long time as well, usually I need to initiate to end a conversation lol

Instant honesty - people get closer, sometimes they could even blurt out things. They feel like they can somehow trust you. It’s an interesting pheromone.

Hold on sweetie, the guys will drop in to give their 2 cents, until then I hope it helped for now!

Hey,

I would say you could probably use A314 with no problems. I would also try Instant Openness. It will help you strike up a conversation with those girls you are attracted to and lengthen it aswell.

Do you feel you need more confidence? Instant Shine is a great one for this :slight_smile:. It also works as a mood booster and will draw people to you.

Would you say you are shy in general or is just around certain girls?

Do you have any particular target right now?

nice meeting you!

Tiffany

Hello and welcome! Yes A314 is great for respect and authority, as is IG, but more so A314.

I would suggest you use some IJ around the ladies. I’ve heard it can make you seem like the bad boy type and not just the nice guy which a lot of women don’t date.

IO is a good one for helping you to talk to girls and will help make it easier for them to talk to you.

Was there anything else you wanted to use your pheromones for? Maybe sex? Work?

Id definitely suggest trying the socials and some A314 for work and IJ for the women.

Good luck!

Welcome to Pherotalk Wjh1!

Yes, more than 90% of us came to know about Androtics and even if we were willing to give it a try we were skeptical.

We are certainly glad that we decided to give pheromones a try after all, because we were opened up to a whole new world of great possibilities.

You already received some great recommendations and advice. I hope to see you around more often. :smiley:

Your GC is on it’s way!

Thanks for your reply Tiffany!

In answer to your questions: I’m going to go ahead and buy Instant Shine I think (+ ammo, and A314), despite people telling me I don’t need any more confidence, I feel I do!!

I think I’m shy around certain girls but not in general. Striking up a conversation has not typically been a problem, it’s mainly my own self perception. I think I lower my personal status when I meet a girl I’m attracted to, I’m working on this though, but would like a ‘boost’ somehow. I think the above three will do it! What do you think?

Do I have a particular target…yes, 2. Ahem! (soon to be whittled down to 1 I feel).

Hope all is well,

James