Hello wjh1! Welcome to the forum sweetie! Great intro by the way!
Glad you like the forum, there are lots of great people here, and the guys will drop in soon to help you out, so until then I’ll try to help out 
Excuse her, she was drunk…and what a weird thing to say to a guy…gee…lol
I find that some women misunderstand what alpha male is. I certainly did, until I read this thread Why Men Love Prostitutes (just go 7 pages before the last page) I learned so much more about alpha men. It’s an interesting read. Anyhoo
For pheros, do get yourself some ammo since you’re young a little probably goes a long way. This product gives off a sexy and cool vibe, it’s great for dating.
You probably can use A314 too, if you want that alpha vibe, but like I said you probably only need a tad of it.
Don’t forget your socials though!! It’s a must!
Instant shine - instant mood uplifter. Makes people around you more happy, people start joking around, it’s a fun product. Great for everyday use.
Instant openness - to make people more chatty. You’ll feel comfortable talking for a long time as well, usually I need to initiate to end a conversation lol
Instant honesty - people get closer, sometimes they could even blurt out things. They feel like they can somehow trust you. It’s an interesting pheromone.
Hold on sweetie, the guys will drop in to give their 2 cents, until then I hope it helped for now!