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Hello, everyone!

My name is Clara and I’m from Chicago, IL.
I just completed my undergrad a couple months ago, and I’ll be studying at Northwestern University’s Kellogg School of Management in the fall!
I’m half Korean and half German, and I currently share a flat with 2 roommates.

So here’s my problem. A little background: my high school and undergrad years were centered around getting the highest grades possible and doing as many internships/extra-curriculars as humanly possible. The whole “high school’s the best years of your life!!” thing was a joke because all I ever did was study, study, study. Not that I’m complaining too much about it - I wouldn’t be where I am without it.
But although I’ve had success academically, my love life has gone nowhere. zip. zilch. nada. In high school, when all the other girls were experiencing love and loss for the first time, I had my nose stuck in a book. In college, where they lived to have nights they’d never remember, I was stuck in a pantsuit in a office setting, getting hit on by men three times my age.

But now, before the next stage of my life, I’m rearranging my priorities and I’d like to make some changes in my life. So here I am as a 23 year old who basically has the dating experience of a 15 year old.

Around guys, I get shy and it’s noot the cute shy where you’re demure and innocent looking. It’s more like ohmygod-what-should-i-say-is-he-looking-at-me-ohmygod freakout freakout!! I’ve been reading a bunch of books on self-confidence and influence this summer, and they’ve helped assuage those fears a little already.

I know that a lot of it is based on you and the body language and vibes you give off, so I’m looking for something that’ll give me a boost in the right direction :slight_smile:

Here’s hoping I find something that can help me!
xoxo Clara

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Nice to have you around Clara !

here we go !

( freut mich das du dich angemeldet hast … Hi aus Bayern )

Women´s are always extra welcome as we don´t have enought here .. that´s something i don´t understand with so many cool guys around ..

You´re right Clara … school is the best time in life … but it sounds that you´re putting an enormous amount of energy into your studies …

But … all the hard work will be forgetten once you can harvest the sweet fruits … am i´m right :wink:

I think that everyone can feels insecure at some points in their everyday lives .. It´s not just you .. It´s everyone else too … Most people just do not seem to deal with it IMHO …

And i think it´s female nature to be a bit shy …and as you tell us that you don´t have had many success with boys … out of many reasons who clearly make sense … you think that you´re at the dating level of a 15 year old girl … hmmm

And i completely understand that you´re a bit shocked and overwhelmed when some guy is approaching you .. there´s nothing you can do wrong ..

Make sure to stay away from some dating books like those from Ellen Fein / Sherrie Schneider .. or from Sherry Argov … those won´t take you anywhere with guys …

You figured it out .. most success with the other gender is based on body language and how you hold yourself …

I´ll check for you the net tomorrow for some good sources of PUA tactics for women …

that´s not what this board is originally for …but since this is a meeting point for many people that are into self development.. there are so many knowledgeable people here .. and when you post in the women´s section the ladies will notice this and help you witm female advice …

In order to give you good advise concerning Pheromones i need to know a bit more from you …
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where have you heard about Pheromones the first time …

how have you found this board

what do you think that Pheromones can do for you ..

what about your social skillz .. i know you´re a bit shy when it comes to guys … but how are you generally get around with people .. how would others describe you ?

do you want to use the mones when you´re out with some friends . or in what venues do you want to use Pheromones

i know i´m way to curious … but you can benefit by anwering this questions …in getting a nice 25$ welcome GC that will you enable along with the 5$ you get when you register in the store . to get some nice stuff to start with nearly for free ..

http://www.pheromonetalk.com/introductions-new-users-say-hello-today/how-do-i-qualify-25-gift-21539.html

You already know that a good vibe counts when you want to have success with other people and there´s something that will help you having this kinda vibe …

–Instant Shine … ( i like the name ) this one is designed to give you a youthful and energetic aura and it makes you feel good when you wear it ( to feel good is important yo know ) and more confident …

others will feel good as well when they are around you .. exposed to Instant Shine … you will be perceived as very worm and sympatic

– Instant Honesty .. it´s one of my favourite products because it deepens conversations and on some people it works like a truth serum.. .. when it´s necessary to establish good Rapport i don´t go without it

– Instant Openness … it´s made to make people more easy to talk to and you will notice when you wear it that the words will flow easier out of your mouth as well …

it will make you more approachable too … this one can be very romantic when worn by women

I think you should dig through the stickies at the women´s place and here in the into board as well…

there´s alot to read … and if you´re really motivated go to the boy´s corner and read the stickies there as well …

let us know what you´ve decided and keep us up to date

let´s saddle the horses …

Pago

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Hello Clara! Great that you join in to our nice and hearty community.

Awesome post Clara and very informative, wait 24 hours for Mickaelia, maybe also faster and the $25 Gift Certifcate is yours. By the way Pagodeiro and I are also german. Can you speak german? Pagodeiro not! :stuck_out_tongue::smiley: Stimmts oder hab ich recht? (right?)

Great that you are learn so hard, it take up a lot of time. I can understand you problems, but also mones are no magic pill. The act more as a booster, for example Instant Shine, for fun and a better mood, I think this a must have for you, but if you are too shy, to stunted it do nothing much. You must learn to be congruent with this stuff.

Self-confidence and body language books are all good. I think with more time and the right mones you get it. :wink:

So, take Instant Shine for the mood and IO for the social opening, the icebreaker. I think this is a good start.

Touch wood :wink: and have fun with us crazy :smiley: and friendly community, ask us if you need help.

Warmth wishes!

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Hi and welcome! I thank you for the honest and direct introduction! These are the refreshing intro posts! :slight_smile: You are very welcome here at PheroTalk… where the posts not only deal with mones but other life questions..

How’d you find this site, btw?

For mones that will give off a confident vibe… to a lesser degree, Instant Shine will give that and more of a comfortable and relaxed to be around you chemical signal. It give’s me a gentle nudge of contentment. My wife tells me that it gives her that bump in confidence when she wears 2x of Instant Shine.

She tells me, that IS/b will provide more of a confidence boost than Instant Shine. It gets a kittenish, sexy vibe out around her. I like when she wears IS/b! :smiley: She doesn’t tell me what she wear, but, when I start looking at her funny and thinking naughty… I ask, and sure enough, she is usually wearing IS/b!

Since you mention a shyness… I’d also suggest you look at IO as a possible helper mone. Usually, these will also provide a self effect and this could also affect you in the same way it can affect others.

Hope to know what you decide and if you haven’t done so, check up on the women’s forum… some excellent mone, dating and life suggestions and opinions that could help you out!! :)a

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Hi Clara.

Welcome on board.

Pagodeiro, Johnny and Alpha have given you some great advice, as they always do.

It´s gret to have you around. You seem to be a smart hard working girl who has put his social life in standby. That´s not necessarily bad, but i understand you feel a little frustrated. Keep in mind that if you put the same amount of effort in making it work that you have put into your academic life, you will also get good results. Think about it as an hability, instead of something you are or are not.

Mones can definitelly help you in social situations. You can se them as training wheels for socialising. They send a message to the people around you, a mesaage that bypasses thir consious awareness and talks directly to their subconscious. They also have self effects. You know that when you feel good about yourself, people tends to like you more; and when you recieve good feedback from the outside, your good feelings get reinforced, so you give a good vibe to people around, and they tend to like you more… and it creates an uplifting loop.

When you are doing a conscious effort to socialize more, at first you are going to feel a bit uncomfortable, but if you keep on doing thet effort everyday, you will start getting more and more comfortable, and eventually, it will become a second nature.You can use mones to reinforce that behaviour, and eventually, it will become a second nature.

IMO, the most important thing in oscial situations is to keep quiet and to keep cool. One or two beers or a glass of wine are also very good social lubricants. Just don´t overdo them.

I don´t have anu experience with women´s products. There are many advanced women users that will be for sure more than glad to help you if you ask them. My experience around this board is that eople is friendly and likes to help.

If you have not alredy done, I would suggest you to read all of the sticky threads in the women´s sections, take notes, go to the store, read the descriptions of the products that catch your attention, and ask some more questions.

Also, it´s a good idea to read some of the journals, and see if there´s anyone whose personality and age seems to match yours, to keep track of their results.

Hope this helps.

Talk to you soon.

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First of all, CONGRATULATIONS !!!

You have made it to such a good school that too right after undergrad ! :cool: that rocks !

If its the MBA program you are joining then be ready for the grueling first year. Hope the pheromones make your life easier not just in the dating scenario but for studies and work too… here are my picks and the suitable uses for them

Instant Sexiness: Use it to attract men :slight_smile: essentially they would find you kinda irresistible..Start with 1 or two sprays if you are getting good reactions stick to it else kick it up gradually… the dossage rule applies to everything.

Instant Shine: It puts you as well as those around you who are exposed to it in a very positive mood. so when combined with Instant Sexiness it can add to the bite of sexiness as the subconscious mind of people would register the happy feeling when around you and get you good results.
you can use this as standalone when you are too stressed out after a hard days work.

Instant Honesty: This one can be used to manipulate those mean professors to favor you or to make that handsome hunk open up like ur lost lover on your first date.. It essentially makes people feel that they have known you for a long time and open up easilly. conversation flow the it would be of substance.. ideal for bonding

Instant Openness: This is another variant of IH so to speak.. but this is a conversation generator… makes you go yappitty yappitty yap yap… non stop conversation flows light and smooth but not indepth… ideal for parties where you dont want to be the quiet person in the corner:

Here are a few suggestions on combos:

First few weeks Bschool Daily wear:

Instant Sexiness + Instant Shine + Instant Openness (1 spray would be enough don’t want to be pulled up by the professor for not listening in class do we)… once you are confortable with your classmates you can drop IO from your daily menu

First Date with that Hottie Boy:

Instant Sexiness + Instant Shine + Instant Honesty (honesty to be worn on wrists)

Party:

Instant Sexiness + Instant Shine + IO (2-3 sprays ? ) before that figure out your sweet spot

Poping into your professor’s cabin for a minute: use it for those professors whose good book you desperately need to be in:

Instant Honesty: If you have time on your hand, you can use a heavy dossage like 4 sprays (dosent matter if you have other pheros on you already.. just add IH)

I work for a banking / government set up in india and I swear by the results of Instant Honesty and Shine in both professional and social situations..

all the best and do let us know your progress… keep on reporting your results here and we would be around to help you finetune your phero dossage for best results

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Half german half korean? Buaa, only in america!

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Welcome to pherotalk Moment!

That is fantastic. You made a choice that most women your age do not make and it will serve you well in the long run.

Think of it this way, there are so many failed relationships out there that most persons wish they didn’t spend all their time thinking or chasing after that opposite sex and now have nothing to show for it.

When you get into dating you will understand that confidence is key and that if you have doubts go slow because honesty is so rare with ppl and you don’t want to wind up getting hurt.

No matter what happens with relationships and dating at least you know you got something under your belt to eventually move on and say well I don’t really need these guys (maybe just to scratch your itch) I will concentrate on my career again.

The socials are great for starting of and eventually when sexi/b comes back in stock you will want to grab a bottle because it matches your personality.

Your gc was issued! :wink: