Hi all! Although I’ve been curious about pheromones for years, I’ve yet to take the plunge. Well, that’s about to change. I’m excited to try all the various products and see what happens.
I do have a couple of questions (I’m sure I’ll have tons more as we go):
I have kids. I am a bit concerned about the effects on them. Now of course, I’m not going to be walking around the house on a regular basis with a bunch of TUTH (excpet when I’m trying to seduce the wife ;-). However, my two daughters are adopted (african) and I didn’t know if that makes a difference (seeing as they have totally different genetics than me). I certainly don’t want to create any weird feeling or situations.
And another, totally different question:
My wife has a natural gift, if you will, to make people very comfortable around her. They tell her their deepest thoughts and secrets so often that sometimes she just wants a break. I’ve seen this happen and it’s so weird how virtual strangers will tell her these things. She doesn’t use pheromones, but is this possible from her own natural pheromones? I know it could be her personality too, but I’ve seen this happen before people even could get a good idea of her personality. Any, any thoughts? And is there anything out there that could hinder this a bit (like an anti-IO)
Hey there PhenS!!! Welcome to the mone forum! Love the 5 legged elephant!!!
Sure, I’ve had that concern with kids and to be honest, I couldn’t tell you if it will affect negatively your kids.
For myself, I’ve used IG and the socials such as IS, IO and IH around kids with no negative effects. A314 as well, the oil that is. At a family friendly gathering, with IS and A314, I was a bit of a Mr. Rogers with the kids just coming up to me and wanting my attention. I love kids and didn’t mind the attention. But with my own families kids, I’ve seen nothing but attention and good vibes. Trying not to use -none heavy products around them. I’ve used these ‘social’ mones with kids around many times with ill effect.
Yes, I’ve had conversations with people that just draw me into a comfort zone around them. I think that natural mones could also be at work besides, good communication skills, non threatening body language, etc.
An Anti-IO… LOL!! Not sure if any mone will do that!!!
You just need to get some IG or A314 and get your alpha male respect me now attitude to overshadow her bubbly IO personality!
I hear that! Though I’d never want to overshadow her. I would like some attention though
Thanks for your response. I plan on doing some secret 'mone testing before I let her know. But I do think she would be interested in them too. (She’s an essential oil pro)
What would the consensus be on what combo would give that alpha-male respect-me-now + a little sexiness/mystery? I’m a quiet type, though not shy of conversation (my Mom used to call it 'quiet dignity). It seems though as I get older that I don’t seem to garner the little attention that I used to get.
Yeah, the wife is a bit loud as well and is at ease with most. I know what you mean, trying to wrestle some attention… The word I used, overshadow, is a bit much…
Well, I’d suggest you start with IG, AMMO, and IS. You’ll get the cool and respect me vibe with IG which can be steered to up the respect by your attitude. The AMMO gives me a confident to be in my own skin type of vibe. Others have a sexually inclined attraction though, again, this can be steered by your own personality and attitude.
IS will put out a signal of relaxed and easy to be around vibe. A sparkly sense that others will feel. I’ve gotten told that I have a younger demeanor with IS on. It does get me attention.
These are signals that are being chemically sent from you when you have them on but you will still need to act in accord with that signal. The mones won’t automatically change peoples perceptions but incline them to that perception which you’ll have to solidify with your attitude and actions. Some will have a DIHL look with the mones only, but those are the exceptions not the rule…
Once you’re comfortable with these mones, I’d suggest you then step up to the A314/b spray or even the A314 oil which is the ultimate in Respect Alphaness, like a Clint Eastwood. Though it is harder to get into that vibe if you’re a bit more introverted.
1Alpha made some great questions and seems to have answered your questions but I figured I’d throw my two cents in as well.
There is not a ton of definitive research on the effects of synthetic pheromones on children but the general consensus seems to be that highly sexual products like Instant Jerk and TUTH = bad around kids. I don’t think they would have a lasting effect but could be inappropriate and make the children/others uncomfortable. Socials like Instant Openness, Honesty, and Shine seems to be okay though, as well as respect inducing products like A314 and Instant Gentleman. To touch on your other point, yes, there is considered to be a difference in the reactions to pheromones by people of different races and nationalities. Things like Asians responding better to respect products like Instant Gentleman and Latin American women responding better to more sexual products. That is another area that can be a bit hazy though so if you shed some light on the subject through your testing, feel free to share!
As for your question about your wife’s natural pheromones, the pheromones contained in the Instant/consumer line of AD’s products are based on naturally occurring human pheromones. These include products like androstenone, androsterone, alpha androstenol, and beta androstenol which are all very well researched and even used in more mainstream products like perfumes, body washes, and hair gels. So, in short, the answer to your question is yes. Now as to lessening the effect your wife seems to have on people, for yourself A314 may help as 1Alpha mentioned granted you’re around her and these other people at the time. In can have an intimidating effect that can actually decrease socialization to some extent. For her, maybe Instant Sexiness A? This is the alpha, dominant woman version of Instant Sexiness and could possibly make people a little more uncomfortable around her. I haven’t tested this myself though so I can’t say for certain.
There are a great amount of women on this forum so you know this question has been raised. I use products like instant shine and the socials around my daughter but not the sexual attraction ones.
Pheromones do have an affect on kids and on your animals as well but the effect whether good or bad depends on which ones you use. Boogie ans was short and correct.
I hope you and your wife spice things up and you get where you want to be socially with these products.
