Hello from your latest newbie

Hello PheroTalk Community,

My name is Jon and I am from Southern California. I have been in a relationship with a girl now for almost two years, and one day I hope to marry her.

What brought me to this site is an intimacy problem. My girlfriend went on the birth control pill two februaries ago, and when she did, I noticed that she became less receptive to any advances I made. I voiced this concern, and she went off the pill about 8 months later. Before our first encounter with the pill, we had a healthy sex life. However, her desire to be intimate with me has not improved to be what it once was. I’ve been searching around, trying to find solutions, and found myself here. I don’t know very much about pheromones, so I found it very interesting.

My question to you is: is there a product sold that could potentially help us? It is difficult for my girlfriend to talk openly about this issue because she is embarassed that this makes her inferior. I love her very much, and we are working through this.

Any feedback would be greatly appreciated!

Hope you’re not anywhere near the fire. Welcome to the forum. Probably off the top of my head I’d say TUTH. But you might want to give us more personal details about yourself first. Age, race, big or small, outgoing or introverted, that type of stuff. It does make a difference.

Is she still taking any form of hormonal birth control. Patch? IUD that releases hormones?

If not, tuth is probably good. If she is, it could end up irritating her.

Yeah, Turn up the Heat sounds like the thing for that situation. But use it with caution as it can cause irritability and frustration. And be sure only to use it at times when sexual intimacy is a viable option, because if she responds with the passion that a lot of women do, and there is no sex, she will be grouchy and unfulfilled. So don’t wear it out to dinner, or to her parents’ house… you get the picture.

Instant Honesty can help too. It is usually used to further communication in a relationship, to make people comfortable enough to open up. It sounds as if you could use something like that. But it also extends a feeling of trust and intimacy, so that might work for you two ways.

Glad you’re here.
Most of us showed up here for relationship help, we’re all in the same boat.

If you think it helps, then I’d be happy to. We are both in our early 20s; she is Greek and I am half Romanian half Algerian, and we both have extrovert personalities. She is not taking any form of medication that alters her hormones artificially. As far as my size goes, I am pretty well endowed. If any other info will help, please let me know and I will provide it.

:open_mouth:

Ahhhh, big or small referred to your height. :roll_eyes: Larger guys may have higher levels of testosterone. Which can affect how much of certain pheromones you naturally produce. It’s easy to overdose on Androstenone, which is the main pheromone in TUTH, especially if you produce a lot naturally.

Attacking this problem from the woman’s perspective, she could try Instant Sexiness, it makes a woman feel more sexy and confident, and could help her feel more in the mood.

Anyway welcome to the forums and I hope you find what you are looking for.

Ahhhh…hahahaha!
We wouldn’t ask for that information Jon. Forgive us for any misunderstanding.

We’re a friendly bunch, but not THAT friendly! :open_mouth:

Larger men, meaning body size, often produce more testosterone than smaller guys. Likewise, younger men produce more androstenone than older ones.
Anyway, it makes a difference in how much TUTH, or Ammo, or any other -none based product you use. Women can be kinda sensitive to -none, and wearing too much can make her irritable, frustrated and grouchy.
Not at all conducive to resolving intimacy issues.

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