Hello Help!

Take a deep breath, and take your time.
Finding your ‘sweet spot’, or optimum dosage, takes a little time and observation.
Start with one spray, as you did, and do that for a few days in a row. Observe people you interact with and see what sort of reactions you observe.
Then move on to two sprays, and repeat procedure.
Then three…you get the idea.
Once you’ve reached your sweet spot, you’ll notice that others respond to you differently, and you’ll start seeing ‘hits.’
When you’ve gone beyond your sweet spot, or are wearing too much, those hits will begin to disappear, and people will either ignore you or become confused by your phero signature.

Here is a thread that explains it:

Which version of Instant Sexiness did you purchase?
Is it congruent with your own personality?
I am a very “Instant Sexiness A” personality by nature, and when I wear Instant Sexiness B I feel invisible, and am often ignored. It is just not congruent with who I am, and people pick up on that confused vibe. So I stick with the A version.

Feel free to post any other usage questions you have in the women’s forum. We’d love to help you out, and you’re welcome to ask whatever you want.