Hey everyone!
Tried my Instant Sexiness (to go) last Sat. I sprayed 3 of Instant Shine & 3 Instant Sexiness! Did not get any HITS ! Wearing Instant Shine alone…got many hits…but I wanted to see what type of hits I’d get mixing the two.
I also bought Turn up the Heat…have not tried that yet. ANY SUGGESTIONS FROM ANYBODY WOULD BE APPRECIATED 
! Thank you!
Some days I don’t get any hits. Even wearing the exact same mix that got me asked out the day before. Who knows why. Keep trying–or try cutting back a bit on Instant Sexiness or adding more. I’m just beginning too and have yet to find the sweet spot/perfect blend. Takes lots of experimentation to get it right.
Although it is called Instant Sexiness, but to some people they may not see instant results at the begining of usage…that’s bcoz you have to give it enough time for the chemicles to “blend” in with your body chemistry. How long have you been wearing it? I suggest that you wear it for at least 4 weeks. I sprayed Instant Sexiness on my close friend, and I found that I kept cuddling her and kissing her whole body for 2 consecutive days! I guess I can’t resist her sexiness!! In other words, she probably got “hits” without even realizing it!! So, don’t be disappointed ok. Good Luck to you!
“It is common sense to take a method and try it. If it fails, admit it frankly and try another. But above all, try something” - Franklin D. Roosevelt
Its true some people see results right away and others have to let it mesh with there own pheromone signature for a few days before they start getting noticable hits. I noticed the effect on myself before I noticed the effect on anyone else. Its been awhile but I think it took 4 or 5 days before I really started to see a change. The reason why alot of us suggest shine first to alot of people is because it seems to be the one that shows results fastest. The other products work to but you have to work a little harder to find the best application points and dose.
In the mean time
Where did you apply and what enviroment did you wear it in? Was it with people you know well or total strangers?
Go easy with the TUTH until you know how you react to none. Just a dab or 2. Tuth is to get you aroused it really dosnt get men aroused as far as I know.
Tisha
While using my to go of instant sexiness I saw the best results with 1 spray. When testing 3 and 5 sprays the reaction was not good. I myself felt irritated as did my husband. I used most of my to go testing amounts I am sure now are too much for me as a new user.
Try 1 instant sexiness w/ 5 instant shine, or a bit of openness or honesty.
Inkling is right try less and see if its better first. Try it by itself without the shine to.
If one spray works for you then by all means thats what you should use. Thats a good thing because your product will last longer.
I find Strangers will react quicker then our own husbands. He is used to your pheromone signature and may become confused by the addition of new pheromones to you so he will feel a difference but he may not know how to react to it at first. He will get used to it and then you will start to see reactions from him. I have heard this from alot of other married people and I noticed it with my husband as well. It took me almost six months to get EOW which is a copulan to work on him. I was so dissappointed at first because all the other girls where having all these great results and I was getting nothing. Then Dolly guided me and I used the correct amount and shabang my husband was all over me. It took about 4 or 5 trys with the other products. He just kinda kept looking at me funny the first few days I was wearing it. Then suddenly he started asking Did you get your hair done? Is that a new outfit? Like he was trying to place the difference.
Tisha
Tisha makes a good point, which is that sometimes people are processing things and you don’t always know what they are thinking. It seems like I get the most outrageous hits at times and then nothing nothing nothing using the same mix. But then again, that happened with no pheros too. So I asked myself recently if they were really doing anything - and Instant Sexiness and Instant Shine, the sure-fire winners for everybody else, are two I never see noticeable reactions with, although I have kept using them. But sometimes the changes are subtle and cumulative. Like I realized recently that the number of times somebody has gone hateful on me at work in the last few months - which used to be an almost daily occurrence - check my older posts - have been practically nil. My power struggles have virtually disappeared, in a bloodless revolution that happened quietly over time.
The clincher is that somebody told me the other day that someone I work with (and used to have a lot of trouble with too) informed her with absolute certainty that I have a new boyfriend. This was news to her, and certainly to me, with no boyfriend old or new.
He apparently based this on the fact that I was coming to work all gussied up (same wardrobe, same makeup, same hair) and my general aura (same attitude as before). I find this hilarious. The only thing that is different is phero usage. I certainly haven’t gotten any younger or thinner. In fact a lot of people have commented on how good I look, but when I see pictures of myself, I seriously wonder what the hell they are talking about.
My point is that people may react to you differently but you aren’t always going to know that. And if they know you well, or feel some kind of constraint, or are shy, you may not know it for a long time if at all. I used to think that it seemed I got more “hits” in terms of niceness, compliments, etc., from other women. But it finally occurs to me that many women are just more comfortable showing affection and approval. I never hesitate to compliment other people, UNLESS I am seriously attracted, which makes me more self-conscious, so I would be a great general target for pheros and a lousy specific one, lol. It’s nice having no-doubt hits but consider that a general positive increase in attractiveness and magnetism over time is a very good thing too, although much more subtle. You may not get to enjoy it as much but having people silently thinking good things about you can only be good for you. And don’t forget to notice “nothing” as a possible hit too, especially when it’s no conflict, no arguing, no power moves where you’ve always experienced them before. I am now going back and revisiting the basic mixes, including one I think may be underrated (Instant Openness) that I discarded in the past as not being all that effective. I am starting to see that calculating the impact of pheros is not as simple as counting the number of unmistakeable sexual hits you get.
Great point vkat!
vkat, that is a fabulous post and should be read by every phero-newbie!!
I agree…she really hit the nail on the head. Sometimes I find that people (men and women alike) start using pheromones and expect to have these big, miraculous reactions…but, it just doesn’t always happen that way.
At times, you will have the big, full-on sexual hits…or someone will be over-the-top nicey-nice…but, more often than not, you should be looking for the small subtle changes in your interactions with people that you deal with on a regular basis.
Great Post V-Kat. I really think you nailed it and explained it perfectly. I wish we could stick it at the top of the ladies forum for all the new people to read so they dont get discouraged and give up and they understand what to expect.
For me especially with Instant sexiness I love the way it makes me feel. I do get subtle hits but even if I didnt I would just use it for the way I feel with it on. I feel sexy and beautiful and just more confident and outgoing.
I do get major hits once in a while but usually cops or MX216 has something to do with the over the top ones.
Tisha
Hello Eveyone!
Thanks so much for all the feedback! You guys are awesome!
I will try experimenting again!
Tisha is it just me, or is it just NOT possible to use TOO MUCH MX216? I have used it slathered over most of my body, and have never had an OD-type reaction…it ALWAYS produces results, though…
Please do that and don’t forget that Edison tried 1000 times before he could successfully invented the light bulb!
Indeed, we are!!!
Please do that… and don’t forget that Edison tried 1000 times and fail before he could successfully invented the light bulb!!