Hey Dolores, welcome 
I have heard some bad review about Athena, but don’t worry, products here are much more effective than Athena 
There is a great guide from tisha here Womens Pheromone Guide
As for the business purpose of moving up, mx134 would be the best. It is the female version of a314, which is very popular among members here.
Something like ishine can also help people be around you and trust you a little more, but it is more a social product
Enjoy ur time here, congrats on the weight lost btw