p102 is a putative, it’s for you to try and tell everyone what you expeirence with it.
Instant Shine is a great choice, I love it. It makes me generally more pleasant and those around me, I’m wearing some now at work in fact 
Miss Dragon is your best bet here for the others, especially since you are female. She knows her stuff, I’d check out her journal in her signature and also the thread LADIES: A mini compilation of your personal experiences! oh, Womens Pheromone Guide should also prove to be a good primer for you. Those three threads should keep you busy a while!