Hey everyone just wanted to introduce myself. My names Victor im 27 from southern cali. I stumbled upon this sight and became very interested right away. I describe myself as a pretty good looking guy I keep myself well groomed and dressed. At least alot better then alot of the guys around my neighborhood anyways. The reason I got interested in pheromones is because the area that i live in is not that great its actually a pretty bad area with alot of these “alpha male thugs” running around here. I hang out alot at the local park which has a boxing gym and for the most part i do get alot of stares and smiles from girls in the gym but my problem is that I’ve always came off to alot of women as the friendly type of guy and alot of guys around here like to “hate” because i am pretty good looking guy and not really running the streets like the rest of the guys around here so they see me as competition and like to interfere when it comes to girls. I guess what im trying to say is that most girls probably see me as “the safe choice” and i wanted to see if these products might give me a little edge in the area that im lacking. well i look forward to trying these products and meeting you all i’ll let you know the results as soon as they come in.
Hi Victor - Welcome to Pherotalk. 
Well, there are a whole lot of products that could help you but you need to be clear on how you want to be percieved. From your op, I take it that IJ and A314 would certainly give you the strong alpha status and raw sexual agression to go up against the competition. However, this could also trigger agression and competition in other guys and maybe drive away as many women as it attracts.
So to that end, maybe look at lighter social/sexy/attractive products like Instant Shine, Ammo and Instant gentleman and amplify your other qualities instead. This can also be a good way to stand out from the crowd.
All the basic info on choosing and using pheros effectively is here:
You should have a good read.
Hi Task
First step in the right direction is to get your 25$ GC
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
Get some togo size sprays of a wide range of pheromones to have the choice of trying more than one product and also to mix the up or steering your mix into the right direction!
I read in your text that you have problems with the classic nice guy syndrome!
If I were you I would try some Ammo! That’s a well rounded product which works perfect as cologne! Its androstenone content will give the girls a more sexual view of you!
You can steer that with some tuth in a more sexual way if it is to soft, but first try it solo!
IS is also a good product and works very well for allmost everyone and in almost every situation! It makes you and the people around you more upbeat and happy and creates a sunshine aura!
Greetz
Yeah I was thinking Ammo too. At first I was thinking Instant Jerk but I read alot of messages in this forum and it does’t sound like it for a beginner like me.
Hiya Victor and a warm welcome to you to PheroTalk… THE mone forum!!!
You have a different environ than most that post up here… but, that doesn’t mean mones won’t work for you. You describe that you are well groomed and dressed and this translates to someone who loves himself and is respectful towards himself and others. The thing that also stands out is the Friend Zone problem that it seems that you’ve got. To get out of that, I’d suggest AMMO or IG. The AMMO gets me a sexy man, comfortable to be in my own skin vibe. The IG gets me a leader of the pack vibe. In both cases, I can tell that you can push those signals to others easily because of your confidence in yourself…
How’d ya find this site by the way?
Let me know what you decided… and what worked out for you!
I was actually at the store and i saw some bodywash that said it was phermone infused and it got me interested. I went home and looked phermones up and this site popped up. This site is really great cause you guys really get into details about the products and dont just say it’s a “magic attraction potion” im really learning alot from you guys.
Most of the people that’ll post in your intro thread will have a personal journal as well. I learned alot from reading up on the BoogieMan’s journal. I read right through it when he posted on my intro post.
Also, the stickies in the Men’s and Women’s sections are great primer’s to everything mones…
task, these guys took the words outta my mout!lol everything they say,is right on the money. im rather new to this forum myself, but man is it awesome! you have to read some of these journals. some of it will sound too good to be true,some of it will make you think, maybe thats not for me(ie;instant jerk), but read through. you can learn so much about yourself, and others that will help you in your journey. i will recommend ammo to anybody, i love this stuff. the name says it all,and it fits it,too. now, everything wont be a hit,but most are. im not trying to put any preconceived notions in your head about any product,but its my 1st line of offense lol. you have to learn what to look for,always reflect, and stay positive. i say reflect,so you know what to look for,and that keeps you positive. nobody is liked by everybody all the time, so be yourself have fun, AND WELCOME!!!
btw, im a nice guy too. i can totally relate to that. im kinda shy too,ya know. i mean im not a ] by any means.geek?yes lol. im in the I.T. field, i like to program,and watch shows about the universe and what not. but, this isnt about me. i said that, to say:YOU CAN DO IIIT!
Welcome to pherotalk Tasks!
Because of your age and your situation I suggest you use a combination of social products like shine , openness and sexual attraction pheromones like ammo and tuth to give of that edge.
A314 will come later when you build that confidence and are more alpha.
Remember before mixing that tuth or ammo with the socials experiment with them on by themselves to learn how they affect you and others.
Your gc was issued!