Hi Victor - Welcome to Pherotalk. 
Well, there are a whole lot of products that could help you but you need to be clear on how you want to be percieved. From your op, I take it that IJ and A314 would certainly give you the strong alpha status and raw sexual agression to go up against the competition. However, this could also trigger agression and competition in other guys and maybe drive away as many women as it attracts.
So to that end, maybe look at lighter social/sexy/attractive products like Instant Shine, Ammo and Instant gentleman and amplify your other qualities instead. This can also be a good way to stand out from the crowd.
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