c) General location: I come from North London in the UK (England in Europe)
d) Tell us a bit about yourself, why you’re here, and what you hope pheromones will do for you:
I discovered this subject just a few days ago purely by accident, I was buying my girlfriend some of her favourite lube from liquidsilk and saw that they were also selling 3 pheromone products, Being sceptical but at the same time fascinated I did a search and came across this forum then spent quite a few hours here. REALLY INTERESTING ! particularly some of the threads in BOSSHANK’s sig
I have heard of pheromones before and can recall seeing tests involving people and chairs or something of that sort on TV but up until reading this forum I really didn’t know much about them.
I’m tall fit and healthy and I would describe my personality as outwardly quite confident, warm and friendly with a smidgin of shyness , reserve or politeness thrown in - if that makes sense. I try to be honest and down to earth - I don’t like or get on well with overly pretentious people. from reading the effects of these pheromones I would say that women or people in general react to me as if I’m using Instant Gentleman and Instant Honesty rather than anything else. I would also guess that I might be one of those people that gets intimidated by the -None pheromone but having said that I’m quite tempted to try Alpha A314" myself.
I’m in a long term relationship and things have been really bad over the last year. caused by particularly my partners difficulty to resolve important issues or disagreements , she describes herself as cold and she has always had difficulty in being romantic etc. another aspect of her is that she finds it very difficult to be persuaded, that’s on anything including sex. She would consider a seduction attempt in the evening as an effort to control however nicely it was done and would only consider it if she was the originator. There is a lot more to it than this and many things I need to take resposibility for as well but things are going to be resolved one way or the other quite soon and I’ll either be single or we’ll have worked it out.
I want to buy a pheromone for her and perhaps a few for myself to experiment with.
hi Zorb_zzz, nice to see you’ve done your research. If you think you might get on with A314 then give it a try; it’s really more of an androsteRone than androsteNone based phero product though.
If you do want to try something -none based then try Ammo or TUTH. A phero product for your partner might be IFM (the women’s version) or you could get the men’s version to wear yourself around her, with the caveat that it sometimes causes a side effect of depression in men wearing it (as you might have learnt about already from browsing the forums). TUTH may be just the thing really in the context of an existing relationship.
To communicate with pretentious people, you can try IO and IH. Io will open up people and make them want to talk to you. IH will make the conversation more personal. They will feel like knowing you for long time and will tell you personal things.
For sexual, you can use some ‘none’. I think it is ok at your age to try none. It can sexually turn on your wife and spice up your sexual life. IFM is also good to make her comfortable, calm and relax by your side. She will hesitate to lkeave your side. It will increase the bonding and relationship
You’ve been reading through the forum, which is good and you’ve made some nice selections, also good. You should look into Instant Shine, you may find you’ll like it. I also suggest some of the socials, as JB has. Instant Honesty (deep conversations) and Instant Openness (light banter) are great to have on hand.
As for your GC, you’ll have to wait for Tisha( the Phero Goddess) , she hands those out.
I’d just like to point out that both versions of IFM are exactly the same. FYI.
It looks like you need something to warm the girl up.
I would really recommend small amounts of -none, as this can put her in the mood to make a move herself. A314 or ammo for sure. Just be sure not to come on too strongly. It sounds like it’s best to try and get her to just want it.
Some instant honesty could help open her up, and IFM can calm her and make her more comfortable.
I’m tempted to try Turn up the heat, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty, and Instant shine all as additional’s that compliment a base and experiment with them - that seems to be the thing that is done by experienced users here.
What base to use is the question. I’m tempted to try Alpha A314. It might be good for me - but that’s not me by nature. or Instant Gentleman that is more me by nature or Instant Female Magic or perhaps Ammo as a more overtly sexual thing. Perhaps I should just buy 2 or 3 and also a few of the cheaper portable bottles to try out. I cant buy them all !!
I’d go with the Instant Gentleman over the A314, because of your shyness, but that’s my opinion. By all means, try the Togos, they will give you an idea of what works best for your body chemistry.
No they are not the same, IFM for women is a little different. Its made more for the women to wear without adversely effecting them men in there lives.
Here is a link from Jazzy explaining it better
I do suggest IFM (for men) for you. It increases affection as well as calms and eases. Helps get past last minute resistance.
Ishine to uplift, its charismatic warm upbeat and gives a comfortable feeling of contentedness.
TUTH to arouse (not good for work environment) Start slowly with this one. You need to give her a bit of time to adjust to the signals being sent.
IH for a feeling of connected closeness and increased intimacy.
You can use TUTH as your base when your going to be together. If you out and about use AMMO as your base.
You can steer the signals the mones give by using IFM IH and Ishine with them. It is a good ideal to start out with to-go bottles to get a good feel for what works for you best and to learn to use them.
Now for her… She can use your Ishine (you may want a big one of this) to give her a uplifted feeling. IFM for women will be back shortly but Ishine will calm to. Instant sexiness A will give her a confident sexy feeling and interest you as well.
