Hello, my fianc? and I are both 21. We have been together for 3 years and lately, we haven’t been having sex as much as we used to. We used to have sex at least once if not twice daily. Now I’m lucky if it’s twice a week. I am looking for something to help give her a nudge to want to have sex more often. I haven’t looked at much so far, other than stuff at the local sex shop (castle megastore) and a couple things I’ve seen online (nexus pheromones and pherozone) what do you reccommend in my situation?
Hi and welcome to pherotalk!
For sexual intimacy, I would say that MX353 and TUTH (Turn Up The Heat) would probably work quite well, BUT you might want to ask yourself why you two aren’t doing the hibbity-dibbity quite so often. Is it simply because it’s gotten monotonous or maybe you don’t have the time? Or is there something coming between you and your fiancee?
For relationship troubles, you might want to try MX412 or MX413 for comfort until you work through it. Instant Honesty could also help with communication between you two, and there are a myriad of other pheromones you could try to change the way she sees you (Including Instant Gentleman or A314 if you want to appear more alpha and dominant, but with the cost of possibly seeming unapproachable; MX297 for a super friendly vibe).
Above all, do plenty of research if you want the best results, and keep asking questions here on the forums. Remember that pheros aren’t a fix-all, but they sure do help!
Good luck!
A nudge in the sex more often department. Well, we’ll see about fixing that. Welcome to the mone forum!
Mmmm… Is it more of a work time, longer days, more tired with more responsiblities? Or it sounds like more of a bit of a bland getting used to things…
Now, I would say, get some AMMO, IShine and IH to get the emotional bases covered, with a feel good vibe. The AMMO will be that sexy, confident viril guy that she knows and ‘oh, look at YOU NOW!’ vibe.
When you want things to get hot and STEAMY in the BEDROOM, try some TAC @ 20mu total sprays, for some Hot n’ Heavy action, IME.
Good times to come,for sure!
1Alpha
It is a little of everything. Work stress, family stress, etc. I don’t want to say it is due to lack of enjoyment, because I know she does enjoy it and orgasms every time (mostly, but we use a clit vibrator also) and she doesn’t like the idea of masturbation so I know she doesn’t do that… So I’m not sure why the lack of sex drive(although I think it could be that she got on a new birth control that messes with her hormones…)
I looked up AMMO, it is out of stock. Are there any others like that? I might try something like that paired with either TAC or TUTH.
Thanks!
yes, I see that, the regular ammo is OOS.
Check out the AMMO, Summer Edition, which, BTW, can be used anytime of the year.
I still think that is a great all around mone that has enough of the sexy in it and not be a full on raw sexual, like TUTH. From the stress you’re describing, it might be better to have these Socials, as they’re called, such as IShine and IH to help her wind down and unplug from that stress. Once there, with your foot massage and shoulder rubs, the Sexy of AMMO and eventually, @ 10 to 20 minutes before getting to that point, using the TAC, yes, that can work out, Vibrator not needed… IME.
1Alpha
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Thank you I didn’t notice the summer edition. Other than a pheromone I can spray on myself, are there any mists that I can spray on her pillow or in the air to help de stress?
These synthetic Mones are designed to be applied to people, and with body heat given off skin, have it mimic our natural mones.
For spraying in the air, or on the sofa, I have used IShine and it’s limited in it’s effects. MOnes will work in conjunction with the person wearing them, their personality, body language and convo’s.
For relaxation, I usually will use Incense sticks, though, the caveat would be, those that she would ‘likely’ find yummy. You could try several scents of those and see which one she likes. I also like those lavender scented candles, which do bring about relaxation, due to the nature of lavender.
1Alpha
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Ok. So would you say AMMO, TAC or TUTH, and something like IShine?
Just don’t go overboard on the pheromones. The sexual ones can cause your fiancee to involuntarily become more hostile and some Instant Shine users report quite a crash after the amazing boost IS gives you. You can always work your way up from a low dosage.
Tell us how it all works out!
So should I just try one at a time or could I combine IS with one of the sexual ones?
Hello Tyler!
Welcome to PheromoneTalk! 
Sex life waning? At a very young age? We can help you for sure. But did you try the basics?
Did you try employing the tried and tested little surprises? The regular I Love You notes? The regular sweet nothings and intimate playfulness?
It’s possible also that you became predictable to her. Routines known by her, you lost the mysterious effect in you. Or maybe its simply the stress. Sometimes, as the two of you prepare to enter a new phase of your life and partnership, some changes in priorities do happen, and this, plus some work-related issues, provides unnecessary stress to a person.
How about courting her again? Help her boost her mood. Put the sexual cravings at the back burner at this moment. Let her feel that she’s a fiancee at all fronts. That you do not appreciate her only because of the sex. Maybe she needs you as a man right now, more than you need her for some sex.
Try IShine and spread happiness in the house. Get that smile back first. And if you think a deep intimate chat can help her share what’s bothering her or causing stress, a combo of IS+IH can do the trick. IO+IH can further it.
But yeah, you need to be ready. Always apply some AMMO whenever necessary. And the TAC. Review 1Alpha’s recommendations.
TUTH… hmm, don’t use it for now. Not until you are 100% sure about her reason as to why sex seems to be a not so happy thing for her for now. You see, although she’s willing to be your bed partner, TUTH might simply push her to let you get it on not because she likes it too, but because she may see your desire so intense and letting you fuck her might help you relax a bit or cool down.
Your GC is issued.
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Hello Dee, yes I have been doing things here and there to surprise her with gifts, show her I love her, support her, etc. I will definitely step that up though if it could help. I know she is stressed about work (people getting let go including her mother) but she just got offered full time with benefits while all this was happening, so I don’t think she needs to worry, but she is a worrier. Just last week for her birthday I took her out, and I made a special photo book of all of the pictures we have ever taken throughout our relationship. That seemed to pick up her mood a bit. Maybe I need to do more though.
As far as mones go, I’ll definitely try Summer Ammo (normal is out of stock), and IS. And possibly some TAC. I was thinking of trying A314 for work. But $109 is pretty steep. Should I try a to go spray or should I just go for it? I work at a mortgage company (I am licensed as an LO but still just waiting on being promoted to a Loan Officer, as right now I am just a processor. BUT there has been talk of making me Loan Manager on a team, so maybe the A314 could be useful.)
Oh and thank you for the GC
You’re welcome Tyler!
I should say, you are on the right track then. Try performing those surprises with mones on you. It’ll elevate the level of surprise and her perception towards you.
A314 is a good investment. In fact, it will not only benefit your professional life but also your love life. A314 oil is a good LTR pheromone. The trust and respect it emits will surely relax her, knowing that her fiance is THE man.
A314+IS will help you at work, specially if you’ll eventually manage a team, and at home, because you will be that confident and approachable partner for your fiancee. A314+AMMO can be sexier more than you may think.
Great then I’ll definitely try the A314. Do you happen to know when Ammo will be back in stock? I have been told that Summer Ammo wouldnt work in my situation as well as normal Ammo would.
Im not privy as to the exact moment of the regular sizes of AMMO’s return. Sorry.
But the World Edition is still available in ToGo. AMMO – Sexual Attraction Pheromone Cologne For Men - Alpha A314
and the Regular AMMO in ToGo is here : AMMO – Sexual Attraction Pheromone Cologne For Men - Alpha A314 with only 6 remaining bottles so…
Ok. Just made my order. I got AMMO World ToGo, Instant Shine, A314, TAC, and a togo of TUTH.