My name is David and I am from Akron Ohio. I am a 27 yr old grad student. I am new to this forum; I did use a well-known, mass produced, nice smelling but utterly worthless (at least as far any noticeable effects) and expensive pheromone cologne in the past, however. Now I am ready for some help and guidance from the masters in the field. As far as my pheromone expectations it will help to back up a little. I am a pretty average looking guy, overall happy with myself in that sense, pretty smart I guess etc. I would consider myself a good catch. My problem is that I am very shy and quiet; when I meet a woman and she gets to know me I am usually golden. The problem is lately, especially lately women don’t seem comfortable around me: the gym, school, work etc. Meeting has become very hard. So it got me to thinking that maybe it was literally “chemical”, like my body was producing an off-putting pheromone or something. Anyway that’s what led me here. So that’s that…can’t wait to get started.
Hi and welcome!
If you tried Pherolure.. that stuff is a joke. The products here are great and actually work! However, they only give you an edge, you need to make changes and become more social to see just how they are working. Luckily, there is a lot of good people here who are more than willing to lend you a hand.
With that said, Instant Openness is what I would recommend you start with. It will help to put people at ease around you and make them want to talk to you. However, you need to talk, otherwise you might come off as a weird to them. You have to work with the products to see results.
Instant Shine is another that I would recommend. Its a happy product and can be a confidence booster. I recommend getting it in 2x strength.
Finally, Instant Gentleman is another solid option. Its a charismatic and warm mix. It also gives you respect without being overbearing or intimidating. Can be combined with one of the other products I have mentioned.
I would stay away from anything sexual for now if you think your possibly coming off bad to women, it will only strengthen their thoughts.
Good Luck and be sure to check out the men’s section for more tips and information!
Thanks maidenfan, much appreciated. up the irons! Yeah it was definitely Pherolure I tried previously…live and learn I guess. The Instant Openness is actually what compelled me to join this forum after researching mones online. One question on the mix: I have class early, then research, then gym. All of these scenarios are potential meeting places (not that I’m always “on the prowl” so to speak) but there are women around with whom I interact daily. With this in mind, will that particular mix hold up well in all three places? It seems from looking around in the forum here that there definitely certain times and places for certain mones…all very confusing for a noob. Thanks.
This comes down to largely trial and error. I can guarantee that for most places any of the things I have recommended will work great for you.
With instant openness, you still will have to initiate 95% of the time, but once you do, prepare for verbal diarhea from the person effected. I mean that in the most positive way 
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