Hey there. I’m male (as i think you can see on the side). I turn 20 in about a week. I’m currently living in the Seattle area, where I currently go to college.
The reason I’m here is because I’m trying to move on from a bad breakup. Broke up with my ex-girlfriend about a month ago. She…cheated on me. I’ll leave it at that. It’s been hard but now I really need and want to move on from that. I’m finally ready to get out again, rekindle neglected friendships, make new ones, and, hopefully, date again. And generally just get out there and be good to myself again.
So a little more about myself and what I’m looking for. It’s a little hard for me to strike up conversations, particularly with women. I guess I worry a little too much about what people think of me. I’ve always experienced this slight social anxiety, finding it hard to talk to new people, but it’s been especially bad lately. I used to be a little more outgoing, and generally funner to be around (though I’ve always had problems approaching women) but it’s been hard for me to act that way for a while now. So I guess I’m looking to pheremones for a push in the right direction. I know I can improve myself socially, but I’d love some help with that.
I guess I’m looking for something that would help me meet and talk to people. Something that’ll help me make new friends. And most of all, something that’ll help me date again. What man doesn’t want to be more attractive to women? I don’t know if I’m quite ready for a long term relationship, but I’d definitely like to date and have fun again.
I have to admit, I’m still very skeptical about all this. I can’t find any scientific studies proving whether human pheremones work or not. As a science major, that alone is enough to make me skeptical. But, since it hasn’t been disproven, I’m willing to try it out and see for myself. I’m want to give this a fair shot and do it right.
You all seem really helpful here, so I’d love any of your suggestions. Both on what to use and how to use them. I tried to do some research, and I’m thinking that maybe AMMUNITION and Come Talk To Me might be best for me but i still want to hear what all of you think. Just keep in mind that, as much as I’d love to experiment and mix things up, I am still a poor college student. So I probably can’t afford to much at the moment. But yeah, this seems like such a friendly helpful community, I’d love to hear what you folks have to say. Thanks.