Hello Mark,
Welcome to the forum.
Below is a thread that may be beneficial to you. It pretty much covers what you may be looking for.
We are going to need a litle bit more info from you. When you say “spark”, are you talking about a connection that includes bonding with your wife, or attempting to re-establish communication? Are you looking to spice up your sex life?
If you paint us a bit of a picture of what your specific situation is we can better help you.
Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home (
See you soon.
Again, welcome