Hello, Newbie girl

I’m 21 and Asian. A friend of mine referred me here since I am really desperate to have a boyfriend. I’m an NBSB and I’m fed up being like that, I want to have fun and boyfie now that I am turning 22, I think it’s already enough waiting for a boyfriend to come into my life. I am a shy type person, I get awkward easily when a stranger talks to me; according to my friends I have the face and the body but I am not confident about flaunting it to the public. All I want to have is confidence and guys to talk to me. Actually I have been in love with a someone, I also want to try it to him but he’s kinda serious type of person and I think if I joke to him he might punch me on the face (just being exagge). Anyway, he’s my target for using that.

Can you suggest pheros which I can use for him? How many sprays and where will I spray it?

Hey :slight_smile:

Well don’t worry about that pseudo problem :smiley: I’m 20 and not looking for a relationship, people are just different, but it’s not a problem not to have had a boyfriend yet. If you are desperate then that is what others will subconsciously notice and that might ruin the one or other opportunity.

Yeah mones will help, if you also work on your attitude, openness, body language etc. I’m sure the women here will love to help you out - but one thing’s for sure, the amount of sprays and where to spray them is different for each person so you will have to find that one out yourself, using all the tutorials on this forum as a guide.

Best of luck for ya!

Welcome Ally,

Truth be told having boys talk to you and blow up your phone is not confidence

In fact if you are confident you won’t need that to define you

Confidence is key in life but ensure you know what it means to have confidence and how to go about it

If you need things or ppl like a boyfriend or a husband to have confidence or define you then what happens when they go away or things go wrong

Think of how many women and young girls your age have a topsy turvy time with your emotions and confidence because they believe that boys blowing up your phone or having a b/f means something

At your age chances are most of the guys coming or making advances is to use you

Love yourself enough to not want to be used

Know that without guys or a boyfriend or attention from them you are still beautiful and special

I suggest instant sexiness for sexual attraction , IO our ice breaker that eases you into conversation and shine to give of more of a youthful vibe and draw others to you

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