Well, hello there!
Welcome to the forum, this is just getting interesting, hacking other people’s noses… In a non-violent, non-lethal manner of speaking. 
Yes, I can relate, figuring things out at home on your PC… Can be easier somedays for me than talking to clients and supporting others. I would shy away from IO in public, that is, when you’re around a public that can damage your business. I would think that IH, would be a different kind of dangerous, until you know how to wield them and how they WILL influence your own nose.
To help with getting a looser tongue, yes, those are perfect for that, ONCE YOU KNOW HOW THEY WORK. IO is more about quantity or volume of communications and IH, more about Quality.
Don’t get me wrong, they’re INVALUABLE, when you KNOW them. Out with friends, family, etc where sharing your wandering thoughts about how hot your brother in law looks… may get a smirk from family… but, you know the IO is working.
As a newbie, my RECOMMENDATION would be IShine for the happy to be around you, It’s Great your paying attention to me feel in others and IS/a for a tougher, Angelina Jolie, feminine and no bull vibe.
From your brief description, IS/b may steer you toward more of an introverted, showing less confidence, sexy, let others take the lead vibe. It has it’s place in social settings, a kittenish sexy… just not for business, IMHO.
P102, which as a putative, is an experimental molecule, and no guarantee either what it will or not do for you, would be a suggestion. It’s a more take charge kind of vibe, no nonsense from others feel to it. It bumps up the confidence, in my own testing. Too much, closer to the 30 mu or more, will turn into snappish, bitchy, territory.
This is in my own testing, so, take that as a possible outcome for you. I bring it up as there is no real women’s mone comparable to A314 for men.
Well, now that you have my feedback, I’d love some of yours as well! Tit for tat… Wait… Not in a bad way…
I mean, I’d like to know which mones you picked and how’d it go?
lol, or so I have been told. I need something that will give me an edge in business and social situations, just to loosen up a bit and relax. I am a bit of an introvert and very shy, would rather be at home working on my computer, but that doesn’t cut it when you are looking to grow a tech business and reach the next level.
, what I am really looking for is a mone to make me more relaxed and social. I am really introverted and have a hard time striking up conversation with new people. I think I will definitely try your recommendation with the IShine, it sounds like it may fit the bill. Not too familiar with the Putatives and the Experimones but I did order a few things to try.