I’m a 47 year old female in Nevada currently hit with hard times as many of us in my state in the current recession. At the moment I’m unemployed and I really need to find a permanent job w/benefits but still allows for flexibility because I am looking after my elderly mother so I can’t work overtime. I’m hoping to use pheromones to boost up my networking efforts and help me in job interviews. I need a sympathetic employer who is willing to be flexible with my hours. I also have started a part time business selling various items (used items, health related items, own art-work) so would like to boost sales as well. With the local unemployment rate at 12.5%, 3rd highest in the nation, and salary rates one of the worst, I really need an edge.
Personality-wise I tend to come off as serious and analytical (blood type A, what else) and that’s fine in a working environment, generally administrative in the financial sector looking to branch out. But I have run into a few problems on the job. People with strong personalities tend to feel competitive towards me and I become a target for bullying or scapegoating. On the other hand, I’m a magnet for needy people who seem to be drawn to me and demand more attention than I can offer. Either I raise people’s expectations too high or antagonize them without meaning to, and the worst part is I don’t see what’s going on until too late.
I just would like to encourage a sense of cooperation and commitment, create a cheerful upbeat atmosphere, and build trusting and friendly relationships. I’m fairly open about myself with other people and sometimes end up revealing more than I want to which has back-fired in the past. So while I want pheromones to make people open up and be interested in me, I don’t want to have it affect me so that I end up saying too much. :o
Please make suggestions on what will be my first purchase.
Sorry to hear about the unemployment.
I suggest you try MX300. It can project you as capable, trusted and respected person. It helps in your job interview and your career.
To make people open up, try IO. People will want to talk to you. It opens up people.
IH will make them talk more personal, details with you. They will feel they have known you for long time. It can build strong and trusting relationship.
Hello and welcome to the forum and I’m sorry to hear about the unemployment. I’ve been there. It’s tough out there but things will turn around. Keep us posted on your trials of pheros and how they helped you with the job hunt!
Hey, welcome! I’m sorry to hear about this, but it’s something we’re all currently being hurt by so I feel your pain.
I must say that I agree with IH and IO as being good choices, since basically IO helps to feed conversation, help break the ice, and make you approachable. IH on the other hand helps to deepen relationships (social as well,) add a sense of trust, make people feel like they’ve known you for awhile, and make people feel comfortable around you as well. Some IS wouldn’t hurt too!
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Thanks for the warm welcome. I thought IS and IO as possible starters. What’s a good strength? Anything that would also encourage salary/business negotiations in my favor? I was thinking A314 but not sure of its effect as a woman.
Also, during the summer, I have to wear a lot of sunscreen (I use Neutrogena Ultra Sheer SPF 85+) which doesn’t come unscented. Should I wear the pheromones mostly on the clothes or is it okay over the sunscreen?
It’s OK to wear them over your sunscreen, it MIGHT make the pheromones diffuse a little slower or not. Depends on how hot it is outside, humidity, and sweating but I’m guessing just as long as you don’t apply too much lotion it’ll be OK. Or maybe wait until the lotion dries up a bit before spraying. However, as mentioned if it’s too hot outside it might even make your sprays last longer by having it diffuse a little slower since heat makes the sprays diffuse a lot faster than in Winter.
Some girls actually like to spray pheromones onto their hands when they have a bit of lotion on there, then apply the two things together so they can mix. Not sure how well that works, but I suggest only doing this until you have a good feel on how the products diffuse for you.
Hello Satellite and welcome to the forums. If you were a guy, I’d say A314 would be the automatic choice, but it has funny effects when women wear it… apparently they think there’s a sexy, powerful man standing around somewhere and keep turning their heads to look at a guy who isn’t there… Your best option might be to post a question on teh women’s forums, it’ll get more attention from female posters there. Good luck.
I was thinking A314 but not sure of its effect as a woman.