Hello everyone. First off, I’m a 33 yo male from USA. I’ve been married for 13 years, and have 2 children.
My wife lost most if not all sex drive about 4 years ago. She also lost all lust/desire/romance. She has depression which I suspect is the primary culprit.
She also has a hard time expressing herself and communicating.
I started researched Pheromones hoping to help spark her fire. Now I see all of the other things that pheromones can help with.
Any suggestions on which products to start with? Please consider that most time after work will be around my 2 children.
I’m hoping I can use something like TUTH after the kids go to sleep? Maybe IO &/or IH?
I’m considering IS during the day at work to help with the drama/stress brought on by coworkers. I’m pretty easy going during work but the people I work around make me high strung sometimes.
It seems you have done quite some research here. I think that the IO & IH would be a great option, together with TUTH but for that to work she needs to feel comfortable with you, else it won’t work. A314 also does a great job, not only at home but also at work. It makes people feel like you are “the man” and will be more professional around you.
Also, try to change the life a bit, do something in the house too, make your wife feel more comfortable and don’t leave her hanging alone. Most depression in woman are caused by stress and most of the time it results in “headaches” when you go to bed. Trust me, I have been there. I think best is to talk about it, give her massage to relax her muscles and don’t force into things she does not want. Make her feel comfortable around you, when you are at home, you take care of the household a bit, make sure that the kids go to bed so that she can take care of other things and be there for her. I know, its hard, but you vowed to help her until death parts you both, so I think its reasonable if you also do a share in the household.
Trust me, start slow and stop thinking with your dick for a while. I know, its hard, but when she does not want anything, you can try as much as you can but it will only get harder because she will resist even more. Find out the cause of her depression, assist her where necessary, when she feels happy and comfortable around you then you can try to spice up your life a bit. Don’t try to seduce a depressed woman, I bet she is already getting depressed because she cannot give what you want most…
I have been on that bandwagon, almost ruined my relationship, and now I am trying to get her back with a fresh mind and a fresh thought. First the comfort, then the rest will follow by itself. If she keeps stressing out then she starts getting headaches and I don’t get anything at all.
mrseeker hits the eye of the bull with that advise. But please understand we’re not out to judge you here.
A314 indeed is sexy, although its not a sexual pheromone, many users reported that wives and girlfriends and other women finds the confidence and alpha vibe it emits as attractive and sexy. It will certainly make your wife look at you twice with it. She will suddenly realize that you, her husband, is a man to trust, reliable, and to follow.
To cut the story short, I will recommend you the Ultimate Pheromone Intro Pack. It contains every pheromone you need in elevating your wife’s mood, towards your ultimate goal. You can read some real experience generated by using the UPIP’s pheromones here to at least give you an idea on what to expect, if pheromones were properly utilized.
But heed mrseeker’s non-phero advice too. One of the best way to revive your wife’s desire is by letting her see you as the same man she fell in love with years ago. Pheromones will help you do this, but the jokes that’ll make here smile, the surprises that’ll excite her, are surely not pheromone-produced.
Partner with mones. Mones will do their job, you do yours, and I assure you, you’ll get what you want.
Happy pheroing!
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Very solid advise! And yes, there’s always plenty of work to be done in a marriage. I don’t expect mones to solve any problems, yet possibly something fun to experiment with.
I think I’ll try the Intro pack and report back with reaults.
I see you’ve used your GC and I assumed you placed an order. Hope you received it fine and now already kicking ass on helping you up with igniting the fire with your OH.
Don’t forget to share your test results my friend. You can create your own journal here to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. Its your own phero time machine.
For further questions, you can also create your own help-seeking thread here. Expert pheromone users usually browse this area. You should drop some report about your MX and TAK usage. We would love to hear how those precious molecules worked out for you. You must send your feedback at feedback@androtics.com (Always enter MX# or TAK in Subject Line). New experimental mixes are never for sale to the general public or people who won’t give feedback.
Also, please drop a feedback here or via PM about how the shipping goes for you.
