OK I dug up your original thread so others can see what your ordered already and see more info for your goals and here it is.
Since you have S. Ammo and IG already what I would do is continue to test those solo to find your sweet spot for both of those. To add to what you have already, I would definitely look into MX297 for the parties outside of the classroom setting.
A bottle of TUTH would also come in hnady as well for the women for bedroom use. With TUTH it is very powerful and would start low when the time is right. When I say the time is right what I mean is build up to it by using your summer ammo and she is more comfortable around you.
Otherwise some of the socials like CTTM2 or IO might work really well wwith what you have.