Years ago I was gifted a bottle of cologne that apparently had some pheromone in it. I didn’t know this at the time, but it clearly had a noticeable effect with the ladies. Anyway, my ‘goals’ are different today and began researching the topic again, and am intrigued by the ‘alpha’ products.
I’m a 46 yo male from Philly, computer engineer. Since my work is 75% behind a computer I need to make the most of that remaining 25% when I’m with my colleagues. I work with plenty of passive-aggressive people and find too much of my time is spent..err…correcting their attitudes. So whatever edge I can have in my pocket the better.
Am I correct in understanding that the oils tend to last longer (during the day) but the sprays may have more..effect? I’m one of those people who is always warm, borderline sweaty.
Yes the oils last longer but hit less strong initially.
Alpha products are definitely a good option for your colleagues.
As a general recommendation, you’re probably going to want some A314 and IShine.
What specific effects are you looking for? If you’re just looking to put their attitudes in check, this basic respect mix should do the trick.
I agree with the A314+Ishine combo. It’s a tried and tested combo. Gives off a dependable and happy team-member vibe.
Happy Pheroing!
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What I usually do is suggest the Men’s Ultimate Kit so you would get everything to try and at a discount already. This way there is no guess work and you get everything to try and for you to see what really is best. I suggest this also because the A314 is in the kit in spray form so you can test it out before you go all in on the oil and see what you think. I will still suggest a few things to start with because it is up to you to decide what is best for you and your budget.
I see how this situation can be approached in a couple different ways. The first way I am thinking will get you the respect, but is more a soft approach and more a safe bet to start with and for this I suggest
IG I am suggesting this because you will come off as mature and knowledgeable and a man that knows what he is doing. This is very grounding and what will happen is you will be more solid from the self effects and also the will work in this areas on your targets as well. This is a good bet to start with.
The second option is much more commanding and solid and you will have to try and play the part also. This should go well, but if you have some issues with some already they may feel challenged. But if you act congruent with this next one, everyone will look up to you and respect you and for this I suggest
A314 Kind of like IG, but much more commanding in the respect and authority area. More of an Alpha I am in charge vibe.
So depending on how you want to approach the situation is what product I would choose for your main pheromone at work. This is why I highly suggest the kit so you can test both to see what is best. The others I will suggest are to go with these 2 and are more social and to assist the main pheromone.
IShine This is always a must have. Will boost your confidence and put everyone in a great mood. You can not go wrong with this one at all.
IH This is also very valuable and what will happen is it will help get people to trust you and promotes bonding and deep conversations. This will also go very well with the above 2.
My suggestions are based of your goals you listed and if you have any other goals or areas that interest you please post and I can at least give you a good starting point on what to start with.
Anyway, my ‘goals’ are different today and began researching the topic again, and am intrigued by the ‘alpha’ products.