Hi, my name is “K”, and I’m a 38 year old lesbian. I live in NH.
Um, let’s see…I’ve recently gotten out of a very long relationship, and I’m now interested in meeting and dating new women. I’ve gone to bars, but that’s not my scene. I’d like to just meet people at ordinary venues.
Unfortunately, when I started taking an anti-depressant a few years ago, I feel like my scent has changed. I still like it, but it’s very weak and somewhat different, even when I don’t constantly shower and mask my scent with strong soaps and such. People used to love to smell me, but I haven’t gotten any “huge sniffs” in the last maybe 5 years. I don’t know if it’s the meds, menopause nearing (omg ) or getting hit with an ugly stick!
Anyway, I’m interested in trying out some pheromones to see if that helps me meet people…well, women. And that’s a question I need to look up: what pheromones do lesbians wear to attract other women, including those that are bisexual? I did search on here, but haven’t found much info yet. One other site said wear what you would wear to attract men, but I’m a lesbian, and I only like the smell of women!
Ugh, ok, I’m going to do some more research on the forums, but if anyone would like to give me some tips in this thread, please feel free to do so!
K, I was just doing some research for you and it looks that something like Instant sexiness A and Instant Shine would be great for attracting women to you and establishing rapport - but wait for Tisha or one of the other girls to confirm this with you.
Welcome the forum! It sort of depends on what stage of meeting/dating people you need the most help with.
Instant shine is a general popularity booster and is used by both men and women. Instant openness and Instant honesty will encourage people (including yourself) to talk more and be more receptive to communication, and so are good for helping you break the ice with someone.
In terms of attracting women, I think you will have to experiment. I’d start with instant sexiness, which comes in two formulations: a and b. A gives a more authoritative alpha signature than b. If I were you, I’d choose the one that meshes best with your personality.
Hope some of this helps. As Gone with the Wind mentioned, there are a few female forum members reporting on what attracts women, so maybe try some searches.
If you can afford just the shipping, you don’t have to wait til next month. You should have already gotten the $25 gift certificate in your email, plus you get 500 point ($5) just for registering in the Smartmones store. That should definitely be enough for 2 to-go’s.
) or getting hit with an ugly stick!
