I’m new to all of this and a bit skeptical but figured it was worth a shot. I’m in a 10-year marriage and my wife seems to have developed a sexual aversion to me. Looking for help anywhere I can. Thanks!
Hi GoodGent,
Welcome! I don’t blame you for being skeptical as we all were before we got here and there is a lot of ridiculous claims out there let’s face it. What is unique here is they have the most products and something for everything. It can be a bit overwhelming, but will do my best to make things simple.
What you will want to do starting out is to stick with the Instant line for now as they are proven and with a guarantee because the MXS and Putatives are experimental.
I would look at the Men’s Ultimate Kit as you would get something for everything and has everything from the instant line to test. When it comes to it, it is all about testing to see what works best for you and with the kit you are able to do this and is the best bang for the buck. I will still suggest the best ones to start with.
Ammo I would start with this one to build the attraction back up. Very balanced and good for day use to. I would start with this one very first thing.
IH This is more a social, but what is really important here is it promotes bonding and deep conversations which will be a must have. Will help to get to any underlying problems that you both may need to work through which will prove to be well worth its weight in gold to get to the good part which is more special intimate time.
TUTH Highly sexual and a little goes a long way. What I would do is build up to this one with the Ammo.
Normally I suggest the top 3 to start with but I am going to suggest 1 more and that is
IShine Will boost your confidence and put everyone in a good mood. This works for any situation to. A plus is it will give you that vibrant youthful glow and this will help with attraction as well.
Being 40 you could benefit from getting the heavy or 2X version with Ammo and TUTH. The reason is you get more pheromones and won’t be overbearing on the scent. As we age we produce less of our own natural pheromones and the Heavy version takes care of this.
Also being 40 A314 could also be very useable to around her as well.
They all can help you, I just listed the ones I think for your goal will help you the most starting out. If you have any questions at all please post and we will make sure you get what you need.
Hi, welcome. I’d give Ammo double strength a shot to ramp her up sexually.
IH will help facilitate conversation about what is causing her to be aversive.
Thanks for the replies. Would you suggest to use the scented or unscented versions?
I always go for the unscented because I like to use my own colognes. The scents are pretty good though and my favorite is Akuto or FF21.
To start you will want to test each one by itself to get a feel for what pheromones can do, so for this I suggest getting them in the standard Neroli scented version for now. It really is up to you though.
Hello and welcome to the forum!
There is a thread in my signature block that talks about help at home for married guys. It is older but give it a read. A lot of experienced users male & female contributed to that so you get both perspectives.
I too go unscented as I like to wear my own colognes with the pheromones.
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Welcome to PheromoneTalk, GoodGent! 
Your intro GC is now in your email and it’s ready for use.
I’ll recommend the socials for you and a bit of AMMO. Forget about the sexuals first because it looks like you don’t have a problem in that area. Your missus knows you want sex. And she is not responsive. The issue here is about her comfortability. The socials might help you with that, as you retrace those rituals you do back then in making her mood into that bedroom zone.
Good luck!
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