Ok i see your situation there & have my recommendation to it> try AMMO(Regular Strength will suit you there as i have seen your age there) + Instant Shine + Instant Openness(If possible get the 2X strength for these Instants) but i leave to you to decide what you want to get.
Ok when you are saying long term stuff, you mean relationships right? Well try Turn Up The Heat & Instant Honesty as these two are good for intimate relationships 
Well here is two links that will be very useful to you> What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated (What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers) on how pheros here work & mens pheromone guide (Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15) about the pheros here. These two are the best info i can find in here So do read on them
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