Welcome to the forum.
The social products, ih and io, might be worth your time exerimenting with. These decrease social distance and make it much, much easier for people to talk to you. Once you give them a conversational opening it is sometimes hard to get them to stop.
Ih tends more towards serious conversations, io towards light ones. Both are worth having.
Also, take a look at the thread Is Instant Gentleman sexual, does it increase introversion? . This explains a little about different users experiences with IG. People experience it differently but you my find something there that might further your goals. Let me know your reactions to that thread and if it seems like that one is one you are going to test. It’s one of my favories but as you can see from the poll it does not do the same thing for every person. This is in contrast to IH and IO which show more consistent results over a large range of users.
We’ll be looking forward to you reporting back on results if you do try something.