Hi there.
Welcomeon board.
I don´t have any experience with women´s products (as least not that i know), so can´t give you much advice.
From what I´ver read, Instant Sexiness is kind of AMMO for women, so you can´t go wrong with it.
You can pair it with IS, for a light, relaxed feel good vibe; or with IH, for helping deepening communication.
You can find all the info you need to get started in th stickies of the women´s section. I really like this thread, beacuse of how it´s written:LADIES: A mini compilation of your personal experiences!
Hope this helps.
Talk to you soon.