Hello everybody, new here my name is Robert I’m 47 years old I just stumbled here on this site after ready a little bit about scents. I was cheated on and though maybe to increase my attraction a bit. Seems, I lost a bit of mojo after getting older. Never had a problem with wife, but after everyday routine you need a spark of something. So I’m thinking of buying some of these products here, but don’t know yet witch one would be the best for me. Other girls tend to be attracted to me, but instead of the one I wan’t. so I will continue to read and learn to see what I would choose. 
Hi RXE, welcome to the forum,
Could you just tell us abit more about yourself :
- Your personality, are you shy/outgoing? and how do you react to new people?
- What do you hope pheromone to help you? (attraction? sex? respect? social? ltr?)
- Do you want to use pheromones with just your wife? or with anyone else?
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Thank you Fantisto, well Ive always been a confident person outgoing but a little on the shy side when I meet new people. I’m looking for more to attract my wife and give it another chance. But, also looking for more respect and to be more social. Also I have to keep in mind that if it does not work out for me I have the advantage of meeting some one else.
Honestly, I am still not sure what do you want to have effect on your wife yet. Sexually? or better up the relationship?
Actually for spicing up sexual relationship with your wife, I would recommend TUTH as it is an attraction pheromone and also cause arousing. while IH make her feel more close to you, and want to share what she kept in her mind with you more.
For gaining more respect, I would recommend A314, it give you an alpha male vibe, it ups your status and people will pay more respect to you. Though this might intimidate some people, as they think you are too high status/you may not be interested. This is also great for using with your wife for making her feel safe and warm around an alpha man.
Social product such as IO and IH is great for helping you being socially. IO increases more conversation and confort, people will talk to you more, and you too more open up to people. IH will deepen conversation and feeling of connection, new friend will thing you seem like an old friend, and old frinds feel even more close to you.
I recommended these bunches of product, because there is no one product that does these all. If cost does matter, you could get all of them in to-gos and try it out, and see what effect you like the most.
Hi Robert and welcome to the forum. You would be surprised how many of us are here because we were looking for something to spice up the marriage. You’re in good company, friend.
These are my recommendations: Instant Honesty to help open up the lines of communication, develop that deeper, intimate communication that women crave. For us it is all based on trust. If we don’t completely trust our man, to the point of being able to share everything, we will never really let loose in the bedroom. Instant Honesty will help that along, because it increases those feelings of trust and connection.
Turn Up The Heat for sexual attraction. This is a powerful sexual stimulant for women, and will make her aroused sexually. She may or may not show it at first, depending on what type of relationship you have right now.
Also, please be aware that your wife knows your natural pheromone signature very well. Any sudden changes are sure to be met with confusion, even suspicion. It is an unfortunate fact that we often wonder “who” and not “what” caused the change. So be prepared for that. It was over a month before my husband didn’t give me a strange look and act distant whenever I wore pheros. Now he responds well enough, but I had to give him time to adjust.
Thanks guys, moonwisper hit it just right. I will try your recommendations. And thanks once again it is a difficult subject for me to talk about you see i am the type of man that new what he wants treat women with respect i love everything about them the why they look and smell and act and even sleep. Never though this will happen to me but did. Dont understand why people that love each other cheat on another? But, i know that i’m 100% Man the problem is you give to much of one self rub their feet take care of them to much and friends and even sister would like to be with me they tell her they wish they had a man like my self. But, see when you give to much and be to nice thats a no no. Now i bitch slap them and six oclock every thursday well not literally but attitude wise it seems like if you show that you don’t care some times it helps some sounds dumb but it works. 99% of women are so smart but, when it comes to men they are sooooo stupid believe everything we say most of it is crap that comes out of guys mouth and bunch of lies. They are few that really mean it and girls never give that person a chance reason to nice girls never want nice they say they do and some get nice but end up cheating later. Reminds me of joke that some one told me “Adam tells god why did you make women so beautiful”. “God responds so u can love them my son”. why did you make them so curvy and lustful. “God, so you can love them my son”. Why give them beautiful hair and face and red ruby lips. "god, so u can love them. Why make them so stupid. "god, so they can love you…
It’s unfortunate, but it’s too true in many situations. Women do seem to gravitate toward men that make them feel bad, or treat them badly. I do not know why it is that way, it is so sad. There are a few wonderful men out there who will not play by those rules, who are gentlemen to the core no matter what it costs. They are an inspiration.
I am so sorry to hear about the pain and suffering in your marriage right now. But I am thrilled that you want to find a way to make it work. My advice, coming from the other side of the gender divide, is to focus on the communication. Be steady on the things that count, dependable. But don’t be afraid to surprise her, catch her off guard with little gestures. Pick her a flower on the way home from work, call her for no reason, tell her she has beautiful eyes, comment on the dinner she cooked, whatever. Be spontaneous. Woo her all over again, as if it was the first time. Men NEED respect and admiration, it is central to who they are. And women NEED romance and cherishing, it is who we are. There’s no getting around it.
I wish you the best of luck.
MoonWhisper hit it on the head. communication is key, and having the ability to learn about someone, even after you’ve known them for so long will make it easier to serve them. from what I’ve read, you have done much to help your situation, and by coming here, it shows that you are willing to go even further to maintain that connection. the forum is full of people wanting better marriages and relationships, and by golly, there is more info here on human behaviour than in most psychology classes.
CTTM2, Instant Openness, and Instant Honesty may help reestablish that connection that was waning, which caused your pain in the first place. all women need to feel loved through their minds, and the more you know how to touch their hearts through your actions and feelings, the harder it will be for them to find this attention anywhere else. after a while, even the thought of it will become absurd.
you have a bit of work ahead of you, since you’ll need to listen, and ask questions, and not get defensive, if you hear something you dont like. you have to be 100% sure you want to keep your marriage. all of these pheros will help provide opportunities to do that, but it will be you that drives.
Centaur, that was so encouraging. Reps!
Moon and Centaur, thank you for your encouraging beautiful words. You see that is what my problem is? I do take the time to get her flowers of all colors red roses pink, orange blue and white for all different moods but, i think I have her to used to it and has it to good. Just the other day at the check out stand the cashier grabed the roses and jokely said for me thank you so so much and smelled them and in brace them and i though i wish one day my wife would do that you see not one time she ever said oh thank you the flowers are beautiful or thank you. Her comments some times is oh flowers again. I take vacation just to help her around the house I love her dearly but slowly coming to an end. thank you it was well conversing with you all and think is the last time coming here. You guys have a good site some of these youngsters have a different view of what love is for me and kind of wish they would see that people are not toys to play with. Or maybe its me that does not see. Well out to find me… Bye…
Oh, that is so sad… I sure hope she comes to her senses. I agree that emotions are not to be toyed with. That only brings heartache.
Of course, there is something extremely interesting and sexy about a man who doesn’t seem to give a damn. It piques our interest, sometimes to our own detriment. You might try that, it might snag her attention again.
I wish you the best, however it all works out. Don’t give up hope.
Welcome to Pherotalk Robert!
You stumbled upon an amazing site and we are more than happy to have you here.
Some of the amazing and knowledgeable guys on this forum already took the opportunity to give you a warm welcome, answer all your questions and give you some right on recommendations.
I guess my job is done except :
Your GC is on it’s way!