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Hi, I’m kevin, and am by no means new to the forum community, I have accounts on such famous forums a vwdiesel.net spyderchat.com vwvortex.com, and the HAMB just to name a few, having relationship issues with my wife, she won’t trust doctors, me, or any kind of suppliment that may help her. She has some kind of issue and hasn’t been the same ince she found out that she was pregnant. My beautiful daughter is three years young and that means that I haven’t had intercouse with my wife in four years. I am a faithful god-fearing man, and do not plan on cheating on my wife, but am at a bit of a loss I have been trying anything to hold our decrepid marriage together, and I’m afraid that divorce is the only answer. I know that this forum isn’t about fixing marriages, but I can’t force her to do anything, I love her. She is Japanese, and More importantly Okinawan, she i very old fashioned and reserved, and frankly that is one of the reasons why I fell in love with her, but she is Hell stubborn won’t accept help or anything not even from her own flesh and blood “don’t even get me started on the family feud with her sisters” other that that she is always moody and has never been the same since the pregnancy, I know that there is an underlying issue, but am not a qualified medical specialist, and can’t even get her to go. I hop that some pheromones may be subtle enough that she won’t notice, and will help to move her in the right direction. Other than that I am an active duty Military member and currently live in “the butthole of the United States” 29 palms, ca. I am a cool guy and am a friend to everyone, but you will find that you could have no greater an enemy.:cool:
I have also heard of secret societies and powerful people have some sort of advantage because of pheromones, and I want these conspiracies dismissed.

thanks,

Kevin

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Hey kevin, sorry for the long reply.

I am falcos, and you did you well in coming ask for advice and help.
That is what we are here for, and if you have any doubt dont be affraid to ask. About your situation, is complicated, pheromones, are not magice potions, but they sometimes tend to look like it, even for me I had some crazy successes some time. I do think they will help you. Might help knowing a little bit more about you and your wife, I know some japanese old fashioned people that sleep in different beds, is this your case??

Well but about the mones. I think that in your case it will be very difficult to provide an accurate awnser, I really dont know how many people here in the forum actually had something like that happening in their life, but either way, what I think you should do is:

1- buy IH, for greater bonding and deeper moments, also buy IO for greater openess of your wife, see wich of the 2 she reacts better, dont use the 2 at the same time. If find this products are great but they would be greater thogether then you will have to buy cctm , but stay put for now. Buy IS so you can make her mood lighter, and buy ammo, so you can look more the sexy material, buy TUTH so you can make her horny, but bare in mind that since she is very closed she wont show it, the socials are here to make her show it more :slight_smile: . buy IG at last but this is not a must, is just fot you to look more cool and in control, woman tend to like that.

Hopefully you will have money for all this, search this forum for things like application points and sweet spots, and if you dont find, I will later search it for you and give the good stuff :slight_smile: .

I hoped it helped falcos

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Boy sounds like you need Joker’s A2 he is working on … In the mean time the advice above is good … I might add Meo-Est (do a search in the forum and read up on it). Another option is LoveScents A1 product. Both of these are very soothing and comforting to woman (sometimes men too). Welcome to the forum and best of luck.

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yes A1 is a very good add to the combo I just told him, but I wasnt sure if we could talk about it :slight_smile:

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Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too :slight_smile:.

I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too :slight_smile:. Its cool!

Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one.

Welcome to the forum.

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Welcome to the forum Kevin

You seem like a very good person. Like Falcos said, pheromones are not magic pils however they do have effects on people around them.

To help you choose best products for your situation, could you tell little bit more about the problem with your wife. You said that you havent had sex for long time, how about your relationship in general? Are you close with your wife?

Look these products: Instant Honesty, Instant Shine, Turn up the Heat, Meo -Est, A1

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Atsuko and I aren’t sleeping in different beds, she is very old fashioned, and very reserved for a woman. I notices that when I came back from a one month deployment to Fuji Japan that she was distant from me and it has been the way since, this is right after we had a planned pregnancy, and she concieved, and before anyone asks, my daughter is in fact mine, and there is no doubting that with or without dna tests. Our relationship is very complicated. I met her while teaching an english as a second language class, and she was my very first love, we fell in love at first sight. We dated for almost a year until I suggested marriage. She has already gone to college and fulfilled her lifes goals and is ten years my senior, she expressed that the unexplored pioneer of parenthood was what she really wanted, so naturally I wanted to afford her the luxury. Sex was great at first mostly three times a day or more, enjoyable for both of us, if it wasn’t do you think that we would have done it three or more times a day? Anyway, I’m at my wits end there s something wrong and her pride prevents her from opening up or even taking advice from me, this kind of realtionship is unhealthy for my daughter to observe, and I don’t want her growing up thinking that this is how couples are supposed to get along. Communication is definately lacking in our relationship, if you can still call it that. I want to make things better, I have stuck it out this long and have been commended by many including those of stronger spiritual beliefes than my own, to include my parents. My own mother said that it is unnatural for a woman, any woman, to go for this long, and if my father put her off like this then she would have already have found another man. I can’t make her change, I don’t even have leverage, and even if I did I wouldn’t want to use it, nothing good comes from forcing someone into doing something they do not want to do. I have tried counseling but without her presence the counselor can do nothing, I have scheduled medical appointments, and she simply refuses to go. I am at a total loss, there is more, but four years is a looong time friends.:frowning: I have an emergency and cannot correspond for a few days, so for now I am not ignoring you all just have to do something, will be back thursday ev. or friday ev.

thanks,

Kevin

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Kevin your situation is in deed complicated, more than any of use will have the experience to handle it. Has such I can only give you my personal advice based on my life experience that dosent include mariage, although I consider my self a student of the human behaviour and study all people that exist in my life to better know how to handle every situation and also to better understand were and when I am doing something wrong. My first council is for to go talk with steve, he is the most qualified person in here, in my prespective to give advice about the mones, I was in a dire case when I get here, although our cases and awnsers are defenetly different my was wake up for the harsh reallity I was into, and understand that nothing could be won by behaving has i always did with this person, even if this meaned loosing this person. So go talk to him explain him well your case and hopefully he will give you the best advice there is to give, understand he is not a counceler, neither am i so dont expect miracles, but steve will tell you how to use the mones, and how to act upon using the mones better than anyone. Has for my advice, first I must tell you that you must have to assume, that maybe in that 1 month your wife was not perfect and may have been unfaithfull, I am saying this, not for you to jump the gun, but to be prepared for everything, it might just be the case that before marrying your wife never expected that you would be away for so long. In my opinion something’s happen in that one month that your wife regrets, and this is why she cant feel good with you, because she feels regrets, she is affraid for you to see it in her eyes, and even she may feel filthy. So what you need first of all is to talk with your wife.

Have in mind the great combo I give you in the first post, because you will need it for later, but for now what you really need is a important talk, break the barriers between you and your wife. So buy IH and ammo , and A1 from lovescent, use first the A1 together with the IH and later ammo if those are taking their time to give you results, understand like I said before that this is no magice potion, so if you want awnsers from your wife, you need to spend time with her. You need to bond again with her.

So best of lucks for your life with her

falcos

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I don’t know what pheromones can do if she is not receptive at all. Anyway, you should try Instant Honesty. (It can help you become closer with your wife and deepens conversation. If your wife is not telling about her feelings this could help her open more and become closer to you. this is really good product, one of my favorites)

Something called Androstadienone (A1) could also help. You need to check this product from lovescent store.

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Thanks for all of the help so far, guys/girls. First off communication isn’t a one way street, and right now, I’m on my own down this one way road, remember, I got counselng and was turned away because she wasn’t willing to compromise and come to the meetings at all. I really think that getting the communication byways open could save our marriage, I will follow your/everyone’s advice here and use the instant honesty, and others as mentioned. I want to use something that wont violate her trust, and also that won’t force her to do something, Drugging/Ruthy etc. I realy think that this will be a good route for me. I must apoligize for the reply, long time in coming, however, I do have to train for an upcoming deployment and don’t have much free time after work, and what time I do have I want to spend with my family, that is, my wife and daughter. I am not sure if she has been faithful, I am constantly accused of being unfaithful to her, and I haven’t, but I don’t dare accuse her, she acts more like a two year old with a temper than a grown woman ten years my senior , I swear.:angry: I have tried everything, really folks, I bought copy of the love dare, and she caught on saying “where are you geting this stuff from, a book or something?” I want to give up but find that I just can’t, the more challenging it becomes the more determined I become, perhaps there is someone out there that can help, and I hope so, even an intervention with her family did not help, and I recently tried that. More than the desire to have an intimate relationship with my wife is my desire to have a relationship PERIOD, with the woman I fell in love with, I feel so lost. The performance loss, is most felt at work, I am supposed to be this virile, stong, leader, but like wolves on the scent of a dying prey the fellowes at work are preying on my weak sense of self accomplishment self esteem, the list goes on. How am I supposed to feel, The Marine Corps tells me to feel nothing, to “suck it up” so to speak, but I am still human, I still feel, and I feel like dirt. How can I look in the mirror and feel good about a guy that can’t even sleep with a woman that he sleeps in the same bed with.:frowning: I am so lost, I don’t even know if I’m that attractive, do women want me? Would a woman want me? my own wife doesn’t, so what does that make me? Am I even a man? I understand that fundamentally men base their self image on sexual prowess, how I feel is how others fell about my “sexual intimidation factor” As stupid as I understand that to be, it doesn’t change the fact that it rings true. I don’t want to sound greedy, like I want to help myself first, but how can I help my poor wife if I can’t help myself? I don’t know, I have been running this for so long, and sought out so much that I seek answers that probably aren’t there, maybe there is something wrong with me, and maybe there isn’t but I do know that something must be done, and I haven’t given up.:slight_smile:

thanks,

Kevin

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Hi Kevin,

I’m so sorry about what you are going through with your wife. Someone very close to me has been going through a very similar situation with his wife, who finally left him (taking his 4 year old son) a couple of weeks ago. He started to try pheros at my suggestion, but then she started to say things like, “You’re just wearing pheros so you can pick up other women!”.

Anyway, the guys have given you some great recommendations. I especially think that Instant Honesty and androstadienone (A1) from Love Scent would really help, if anything can. The only thing is that the A1 is quite concentrated, and you’d need to dilute it with perfumers alcohol. The guys in the Mens Section can definitely help you with that as well.

It may well be deeper than pheros can reach, and you might find that the best solution is to separate, even though you have a child together. My poor guy here went through almost 8 years like that, emotionally abused and totally isolated. Finally he can be himself again, if he even knows who that is anymore :frowning: