hello my name is james. im from ontario canada. ive just started doing some research into the different pheromone products out there,this site looked like an awsome place to get some info. i started looking into this stuff in hopes im might find something to help boost the more “intimate” areas of my relationship with my wife( things have really slowed down). so my question is really where do i start in the wolrd of pherommones.
Hello and welcome to the forum.
You have a lot of company up there in the great white way. You might need to form a club or something … lol.
Where to start - reading here in the forums and giving us a little more information about yourself. I would start out by reading the first thread in my signature block and from there go to the stickies in the mens section.
As far as the information - we need to know what you want to do with the pheromones as well as how you relate to people and your basic personality. This way we can match the right pheromones to both you and what you want to do. Plus you will get a gift certificate you can use towards your first purchase once you do that.
Good reading and looking forward to hearing back from you.
Hey there James, welcome to the forums! What got you interested in phero’s, if you don’t mind me asking? I’m ashamed to say that for me it was one of those Athena 10x ads in the back of a magazine, which made me curious as to whether that would actually work at all. So i started researching and here i am! Great forum with smart, friendly people to field questions with!
But like Bosshank said, it would help to know some more about you first. Like what kind of personality you have? What kind of personality does your wife have? What has been the problem lately between you two? Communication, stress, frustration, just been together for awhile and need that boost? These kinda things will help us make sure that we give the best advice to suit your needs. So let’s hear some more! Cheers!
hey welcome ![]()
like those two said, it would be nice if we knew more abotu you.. however, i can still recommend you some to start out with:
if you are looking to improve your relationship in the bedroom wise, you should try turn up the heat. i have tried it myself right underneath my nose and it worked really well for me. (it’s for guys to wear to arouse women)
if you are looking to improve communication and just more rapport in general, i highly recommend instant honesty. it’s a great product and i personally owe one myself ![]()
anyways, welcome and let us know if you need mpre help!
man i didnt expect a reply that quick, thank you. as far as my personality goes, im pretty outgoing the kinda guy you dont dare to do something if you dont actually want it to happen. i usually end up makeing friends with almost everyone i meet and everywhere i go, i never bought into the whole dont talk to strangers thing. in the work place i generally get along with everyone, and they all end up comeing to me for help or advice. as for want i want the pheromones to do, i want to be able to get and hold my wifes attention, something that might encourage her to want get closer to me on a more frequent basis. id like to be able to walk into a room with her and have her attention zone in on me, have her want to be right next to me(and if possible out right jump my bones lol)
hi there ![]()
i really hoenstly think turn up the heat would be a great product for you to get what you want out of pheros.
from ur personality, you might not need instant honesty, since you seem like a likeable guy that people open up for serious discussion anyways.
also, you might want to consider ammo for general attractino factors as well ![]()
welcome again!
WOW, i cant believe how fast you guys replied thank you. im going to check out those product remmy thanks for the recomendation and thanks all for the warm welcome. now i know stress is a big factor with my wife and I’s relationship, weve been together for almost 6 years and have 3 children our 3 year old son and 6 month old twins, so time and money are always on the shorter end. i guess i should give some info on my wifes personality. she is fairly outgoing, she is shy at first with new poeple and gets her defences up pretty easily but once she decides shes comfotable with you she really fun and quite the ball of energy. she can be a very dominant person she wont take any shit and can be a touch of a bitch sometimes. very organized woman and pretty picky, she likes to have things her way.
Mmk, let me give my two cents here…
Turn Up The Heat is a good product, but it’s mostly for the bedroom or the pub/club. In other words, for WHEN you plan on getting intimate (or trying to initiate intimacy) or for when you have to compete with plenty of other guys in a sexually charged atmosphere. At least that’s how it’s been in my experience. Now this is of course great for you, just wanted to say that so you’ll know the difference between Ammo and TUTH in a second.
Ammo is another sexual product that has been well buffered with social pheromones to prevent that screaming signal of “I WANT SEX!”… it adds a bit of sexual tension to your interactions. If you wanted to help your wife feel more flustered when at a restaurant or going somewhere more sedate, this would be the product for you. Save the TUTH for when you get back and she wants to throw you down. ![]()
Now here i differ from Remmy’s advice. I actually WOULD recommend Instant Honesty, since it gives a feeling of deep connection with the people you interact with. I find that IH and a sexual product make a great combination, in making women feel closer and more flustered at the same time. Never forget that women need to feel close to their man to get those deep feelings of attraction going.
But like i said, that’s just my two cents and some more people will be along to give theirs in a second. Good luck with your trials and hope to hear more from you around the forums! Cheers!
im also a very physical person, so i truly enjoy physical contact. i like to touch and be touched so hugging is big within my circle of friends. id love to have her more inclined to be close like that
Hi, welcome along.
I see bosshank has already popped in, my first piece of advice is to read the married guy’s thread in his signature strip ( also in mine) and learn from it.
Second, in a stressful marriage, communication, not sex is the key to success, concentrate on the socials such as Instant Honesty, get the communication going and the rest will slot into place given time. How do I know? Because your description of yourself and your wife could equally have been written by me
Six months after coming here, I’m still working on it, don’t let it get as far down the line as I did.
just want to say thanks again to you guys for the advice, i dont know to much about this stuff yet so i wouldnt be much help in this area lol but if any of you have any questions about pets thats where my area of expretise is lol and id be glad to help with that
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk ![]()
Great advice from the members. I suggest you look at a few different products
TUTH to spice it up in the bedroom, Give it time for her to register and respond to the new signature, She knows you and even though she is not aware of it knows your mone signature so with those close to us repeated exposure is sometimes needed but once they register it they respond well. This all happens i the sub conscious mind by the way .
AMMO for a general sex appeal. This can sort of get the blood pumping for later. You know what they say about anticipation.
IH for a close intimate connection, Women love this feeling makes us more amorous.
The only one not mentioned that I would consider is Ishine. You mentioned you like more contact with other and Ishine can draw them in. Its charismatic upbeat warm and people get in your space more when you use it. It can also aid in your wife mood and stress.
Now once you try these keep a eye out for IFM. This one is out of stock right now but its a godsend to most men. Affectionate… it puts women at ease and gives them a feeling of well being and comfort.
Be sure to read Bosshanks guide for married men. There is a link in his signature above. Great stuff there.
Now you mention animals. I just pointed this out to a zoologist who joined and I don’t know how you deal with animals but do not approach animals that are familiar with you already from behind when first using your products. Let them get a visual and here your voice. Then they will sniff you, know your new scent and be fine. They identify you partly by mone signature and sometimes approaching without the auditory or visual senses scares them. They think a stranger is approaching. Not a huge problem but something to be aware of.
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