I am a 41 yr old male. Soon to be single again after many years not my idea ] I have a 9 yr. old son, who sometimes, is the only thing that keeps me going. I stumbled on this website in kind of a round about way, but was extremely interested by what I read. When last I was dating, I was very outgoing, loud, rough around the edges, but a hell of alot of fun. Now I just feel old. I think I’ve forgotten how to just have fun, and honestly, am quite nervous at the prospect of having to get out and meet someone. I was quite happy being a husband and a dad. Sure, it would be great to have a few hot dates with some younger, sexy women, but in the long run, I’m really looking for a relationship that means something to the right woman. I look forward to experimenting with pheromones I’ll take all the help I can get LOL ] as well as any advice you guys can offer. I look forward to chatting with you in the future. Thanks in advance. 
Hey Atilla,
Welcome to the forum. Good luck with “getting back on the horse”. I am sure you will hit your stride. There are loads of really well informed people on this forum - of all ages and of both sexes; so you’ve come to the right place. Any initial thoughts of what you’re keen to try first?
Again, welcome!
Matt
Cape Town, ZA
gee,where did you here about us,atilla?
familiar with land o lakes are ya?
anyhoo, guarenteed pheromones will offer you a foot in the door more often, and maybe instant shine can offer a wider variety of ages to date.
just going through the product descriptions are fun,especially when you compare them to what people are experiencing on the forum.
this stuff is just magical sometimes.
and sometimes,
its work.
have fun with it.
Well, Atilla, I went thru the same thing too, we can’t change the past, but we can plan for the future, don’t blame yourself, keep a positive attitude ok!
Grab some of the pheromones, and I would like to wish you happy ‘hunting’ and good luck!!
May God bless you always.
Btw, welcome to the forum!
Hey,
I found this site by accident in a way. Found some pheromones on E-Bay, Got curious, Googled, checked out a few sites. I liked the idea of a forum where intellegent discussions about pheromones were taking place, me knowing nothing at all about them.
Hi Lor, I’ve seen you here pretty regularly. I did some reading before I actually joined. You always seem to have good advice. Yes, I am familiar with Land-O-Lakes. I used to love Hungry Harry’s on 41! Any decent places to go out that way these days for some night life?
Thanks to Matthew and Mohammad for the encouragement. I’m sure I’ll be able to get back into the swing of things. May take a little while, but I’m going to work on it.
I was thinking about starting with Instant Shine, and maybe some Instant Openess, just to help break the ice. Was also considering some Turn up the Heat, just to have a little fun. Am I on the right track? Any advice gladly accepted.
Thanks again to everyone who said hello.
the only nightlife i know of is closer to pinellas.
there is LA hangout on florida/41 but its trouble.
and fun.
i tendeded bar in tampa.
i think your choices are great for starters.
post your thoughts when you get them
Hi,
Just thought I’d send you a warm greetings as well.
Your situation is very similar to mine. I can identify with your comment that sometimes you feel old and are a bit nervous about the prospect of finding someone else.
What you might consider is Ammo. Similar to Turn up the Heat but not as aggressive… and it smells great.
I’m surprised Lor didn’t recommend it.
Anyways, good to meet you.
Others have been where you are now, and come out the other end.
Your child, and your conception of duty to your child, can be a lifeline to this world. I suspect you already know.
Hey there Atilla!
I already know you’re probably a blast to hang out with. No one names themselves Atilla the Fun unless they’ve got a dynamite personality. So let’s start lighting up those firecrackers!
Instant Shine and Ammo sound like great places to start for you. They’re bright an exuberant, and will remind you of how celeb-like you usually are. Kinda breaks you out of your shell and gets you going. Gets those sideways glances from the ladies, and magnetism from everyone, everywhere you go. Hmm… yes, yes, I think that is in your phero future.
Sorry I’m a bit late with your intro. Your gift cert is waiting for you!
Love!