Greetings. I stumbled upon this site and was very intrigued. I am looking for some answers to a nearly non-existent sex life with my wife of many years. I hope this forum will help me to find those answers.
Dex
Hello dexter 
Yeah this website is truely intriguing, even after a long time here, I am still intrigued every day!
For your situation, I highly recommand turn up the heat. THis product is very helpful in getting more action, especially with women you are already close to, like your wife
Maybe a little more ih too, so you guys can have better communication and see what each other really needs to improve the overall situation in the long term to!
Let us know how you think
Hi dexter,
Welcome to the forum
I agree with mb, tuth is good to spice up your sex life. It can sexually arouse your wife.
IH is also good to have intimate, deeper conversation with your wife. It can increase the intimacy and make your wife relax beside you.
Have fun and hope you have a great sex life with your wife.
Wecome again
Welcome to the forum.
You may want to look at the stickies at the top of the men’s forum. As I recall there’s one on enhancing existing relationships.
Hello
Welcome to the forum
TUTH is a great product to start with as well as IH which will bring a feeling of closeness and intimacy.
Be sure to read all the stickies in each section so you can become familar with the forum and the products.
If you have any questions just ask.
Your GC will be in your email box shortly
Tisha
Hello Dex and welcome to the forum.
Although the forum may seem to be filled with young folks looking for that certain someone there are quite a few of us here who have been married for a while now. I am in my mid-40s and have been married for 20+ years.
I use pheromones for several purposes - work, social and to enhance life at home.
You have been married for a while so I won’t give you too much relationship advice.
I am going to recommend a 3-pronged line of attack.
First because you say you have been married a while I am going to assume you are closer to my age than say your early 20s. I am also going to give you some advice as if you were working.
First - during the evenings or on weekends I will recommend using Ammo when you will be around the wife. It is a balanced product but it has enough 'none in it to remind her you are a guy and you are interested.
Second - at this point in our lives we also know sexual attraction is not the final answer. So in addition to Ammo I would recommend what we call the social products - in particular Instant Honesty. Good communications are key in any relationship and we also know women equate good communications to caring to emotional closeness to emotional intimacy which can lead to physical intimacy. The Instant Honesty in particular will help this as the beta 'nols both facilitate deep conversation and create a feeling of emotional closeness. IS will help her feel happy to be around you. Instant Openness helps generate general conversation if you need that from time to time. I use these - my favorite is Instant Honesty - in conjunction with the Ammo.
On special occassions, date nights, or at the end of the evening I will throw in some Turn Up The Heat to create a spark or fan a spark into …
Finally, during the day for work I use A314 usually combined with Instant Honesty. I mention this if you are not retired yet as one of the ladies (Phernoob) here in the forum said she got some for her husband for work. However, she said the alpha vibe it gave him also created a “spark” at home that certainly helped things in the romance arena.
There is one more thing to be aware of: sometimes long-term spouses who know our phero-signature well do not always react well to a change in our phero-signature. Reactions can range from the funny like the wife who jumped/fell out of bed when her husband came to bed wearing 2-3 sprays of Turn Up The Heat for the first time, to mild irritation (my and a couple other users’ moms) to slight puzzlement and suspicion (my wife and Tisha’s huband).
At first I did not tell my wife that I was using pheromones. When I first started using them she would look at me funny - she could tell something was different but could not put her finger on it. Often when women sense a major change in their spouse the first thing they think is … another woman. I could tell by her reactions and a couple comments that she thought … maybe … so I was very purposeful to ensure her I had eyes for only her: flowers for no special reason, date nights, etc.
She did notice the bottles but I keep them with my colognes and just acted as if they were colognes. At a certain point she did ask what they were. I told her and framed it in terms of aromatherapy designed to improve our relationship. Which is true. And that went over quite well. She probably still thinks its one of those crazy things I do but knowing I am doing it on behalf of our relationship so that is OK. Remember the flowers and “date night” things above.
I know this is long so if you have any questions please ask.