Hello! First of all, i want to say thanks to the people that made this forum possible! I’ve read little about pheromones before, and the little i read got me very skeptical, because it all seamed more like “pseudoscience” than actual facts, all those promises of “get all the girls that you want like “THAT”” sounded like a bunch of bull! Today i found this forum, and after a couple hours reading some topics its obvious too me that you guys are much more realistic about it, and when i say realistic i mean based on actual facts instead of some crazy fantasies!
Anyway, lets get personal! I’m 21, i’m from Brazil, i can’t openly say i’m a very attractive guy, but it has much more to do with self confidence than actual looks. I had a phase in my life when i was very shy, i didn’t manage to get comfortable in a conversation with girls, specially with stunning ones. Since then i started to realize it had to do much more with my mental setting than looks, talk skills etc. In the last 3 years i became much more aware on how the game works, the art of rapport, i became to test myself in the everyday life and started to build confidence and better social skills. Some reading about NLP helped as well hehehe . I can tell you that since then i had some crazy experiences! But mainly with older women, a lot of them, matter of fact i’m having more relationships with older women than with women in my age! Some friends of mine love to say that i’m a “MILF catcher” hahaha! When i read in here that people with tipe O blood (which i have) create more androstenone (thats it?) that can attract older women i had giant laugh, mainly because i don’t have any idea if it has anything to do with my relationships with older women, but only the thought of it was funny as hell! Well, like i said i don’t have any problems with older women, but with some girls of my age i get trouble sometimes. When i’m on the top of my game i don’t have any inhibitions in talking and flirting with some crazy attractive girls, but there times that i fell a lack of connection between us, it not get as intense as i gets with older women, and the feeling that something more intense is lacking makes me a little upset, it blocks me and i can’t get it to go further. I don’t know if has to do with a lack of openness from them, a lack of sexual attraction, or with the intensity it gets as it evolves. Sometimes i try to rationalize that it has to do with the kind of conversation we have, with older women i have some mature conversations about life and things deeper than just small chat, which i very much enjoy it, and with girls of my age the talk evolves in a lot of things that i considered meaningless and boring, and that simple crushes me. But maybe its only me rationalizing it! The MOST stunning girl i ever had was my age, short, brunette, Latina kind of looks, crazy crazy sexy, the kind of girl that guys break their necks to take a look at! But i cant say i got as connected with her as i got with some older women i had, it was much more carnal and physical, which of course is good and i very much enjoy it, but it lacked that extra closeness that i love as well.
I have read a lot on what might help me, but i want to hear your opinion about it!! If there’s anything further i can say to help you to help me please ask!
And thanks again for this great forum! I will definitely read it further!
MD