Hi Vince, instant gentleman could be a winner for you. To attract the opposite sex, Ammo is a good alround product. You seem like a very intelligent guy, so I suggest you have a good read of The Mens Guideand let us know if you have any additional questions on pheromones.
What nootropics/herbs have you used and what are the results? My favourites include brahmi, gingko, and kava kava.
Vince, once you start using pheromones be sure to return and let us know about your results 